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The Bottom of the BarrelPosted Wednesday, March 26, 2008, at 4:09 PM
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I always thought that nothing could phase me anymore, Boy I was wrong! Things like this happened in other eras to other empires and they crumbled. If this empire would only get back on the rack so nothing could prevail against it and that rock is Jesus Christ and his rod which is the Bible. We are on sand now and slowly slipping beyond the point of rescue. Comments Showing comments in chronological order [Show most recent comments first] |
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Get over it.
So... transgendered people in "other eras" cause "other empires" to crumble. LOL. Wow. That's a hilarious attempt at blaming the world's past and present problems on people who haven't caused them.
It might all come into law and be accepted by some , but I am entitled to my opinion and I will give if you get offended by that well that is just tough* I was going to add more to the word tough , but I am better than that so you can get over it.
SO... if added into law, WHAT IS IT GOING TO DO? Nothing. Get over yourself Michael. You aren't helping anyone.
At least my opinion is being voiced.
I will not be the pansy that some Christians can be.
I believe you are getting your refreshements through the same lead aquaducts as the Roman Empire.
I will not be the pansy that some Christians can be.
-- Posted by michaelbell on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 5:21 PM
Pansy huh? Because they don't want to be judgemental and equate the fall of empires to transgendered people? Perhaps they are just a bit wiser and learn to make some sense before they speak.
I get very,very tired of plumbing (porcelain and otherwise) being used as an excuse for denial of rights.
"We can't have integration. We'd have people of different races sharing water fountains and restrooms."
(I wondered why the people who disapproved of race-mixing didn't extend "separate but equal" to everyone.
One set of drinking fountain,toilet,tub,sink,changing station and bidet for each group: Asians,Blacks,aborigines,Caucasians,Jews or whoever is put in their own box this week.)
"We can't have an ERA because women would have to share locker room showers with men."
I don't know about y'all but most homes I've been in have unisex facilities based on first come,first served.
Certainly,all these social questions have issues but why trivialize them with sensationalism?
Let people go in a stall,do what they must,wash up and make room for the next person.
Let's stop this nonsense of we must/can't respect someone and their rights because they are _____.
We need to treat others with dignity and caring because of who WE are.
The fact that God's law and the rules of this country insist that no one be abused is another story.
We needn't worry about the "wrong" groups getting special privileges if we insist that all people be treated with compassion and fairness in every aspect of life-even those people we don't like or understand.
AMEN! Michael feels it is his place to again place to play God's role and judge people.
So far I have notice one pattern, Michael and most Republicans are so hell bent on taking away rights from people who DON'T EVEN HAVE ANY, rather than being true Christians and living, communicating, and respecting every person from all walks of faith.
What Michael's lovely "Christian" article forgets to make important is that the majority of transgendered people were born with either both sex hormones, and had to make a choice, or every feature about them resembled one sex except the "plumbing"... I wonder who made those people in his image, God? Yet, Michael says it's his right to deny them everything including respect.
Quantumcat, your words have summarized this whole argument. There is no reason why a certain group should EVER be pushed aside as being less equal. Jesus taught us to be kind, good, loving poeple - not judgmental excuses for creatures claiming to be humans.
Genetically, a person can be born asexually. Usually a chromosome is wrong, and the XX or XY doesn't quiet come over right. They are born without reproductive organs, and it is the choice of the parents to decide if the baby will be a boy or girl, which then results in another surgery while the child is an infant. As the child later grows and passes through puberty, hormones will tell him or her the gender they should have been. We can only hope that the parents and doctors got it right from the beginning...But, like all people, parents and doctors make mistakes, and hormones are hard to control.
I think it's more important to be true to yourself - yes, if that means being gay or becoming a man or woman - than judge someone for following their heart. I have more respect for the former than the latter.
Darrick_04, you also made an excellent point - I forgot to say that in my last blog. ~Phoenix
Michael who made you GOD. I was brought up with the saying...Do unto other's as you would have done to you.
Mr. Bell,
How can you possibly say that empires have fallen due to people who want to be male of female? I want you to explain to me - with accurate, credible sources - how other empires have fallen due to people being born the wrong gender or being born asexually.
Also, I PRAY that America is not an empire. The moment we are...well, it's to Australia or England with me. Just because in your eyes were are an empire and should have religion everywhere does not mean everyone agrees (and with those conditions, wouldn't we be the fourth reich?).
(In my eyes, there was only one Empire in the universe - a long, long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away, and Darth Vader was second in command.)
Thanks Phoenix... As much as Michael dislikes Islam, for whatever reasons... He has far too much in common with their ideals, makes me wonder if he has a clue who he worships.
Think about it? What places in the world outlaw homosexuality? Transgendered people? Other religions? Adultery? Abortion? None other than the Middle East and many UNdeveloped countries. It seems if that's the way you want everything Michael, you live on the wrong side of the globe. I'd gladly reimburse any expenses you incur on your journeys!
Can we start a fund for him? I'll put in some money for that!
Count me in on that fundraiser and while we are at it, let's get him some mental help as well....
This is utterly ridiculous. Michael has always and will always continue to ONLY point out homosexuals/transgendered individuals. I still say he needs to come out of the closet. Guiltiest dog barks the loudest and I can hear him way over here. It seems to be a bit of an obsession of his.
Sorry, Michael, I must have missed when you were given the right to judge. Do I personall agree with being gay or transgender? No, but I can only imagine for some of these people how hard it is to deal with. Many have committed suicide because they do not like feeling attracted to the same sex, or uncomfortable in their own bodies. I know some do it because they want to experiment. That is between them and God. I understand it is right to stand up for what you believe in , but not to judge others who differ. have you just tried to show people what God's love can do? Your are just as guilty for hateful thoughts and actions as those who sin in other ways. Who would want to try and even find out about god's love when all they see from you is hate and wrath?
Christians everywhere need to reach out to these people and tell them that the body that God gave them is what God intended to give them," LaBarbera contends.
I agree with this person. Could you imagine going in to a nice business and behind the front desk sits a man in a dress and high heels? What would your thoughts be? But here's what you want to hear...Even though this is very strange, we still need to love this person and just pray for him. I do agree with doing this, but it doesn't make it right for him to behave in this way. And you are going to say "who are you to judge?" and I say to that...this is a discussion and I am discussing the topic and giving my opinion.
As far as gays being together, if God intended this he would have made it where both sexes could have children. It takes one man and one woman ,just like God intended for marriage. He made Adam. He did not want Adam to be alone so he made out of him woman. Woman is for the man. That's why when you are married you are as "one". Works together like a puzzle! When you look from the front you do not piece together. Not natural, and we all know the back is intended for other things. Now that I've said more than I should I'm going to stop.
As far as gays being together, if God intended this he would have made it where both sexes could have children. It takes one man and one woman ,just like God intended for marriage. He made Adam. He did not want Adam to be alone so he made out of him woman. Woman is for the man. That's why when you are married you are as "one". Works together like a puzzle! When you look from the front you do not piece together. Not natural, and we all know the back is intended for other things. Now that I've said more than I should I'm going to stop.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 9:55 PM
I guess God had the same thing in mind when millions of women who got married to men couldn't reproduce... We've been through this time and time again. You need to do your research. The last sentence sums up your knowledge of the situation.
Where did aids come from? When men started putting things places they shouldn't. There's always punishment for our actions.
I guess God had the same thing in mind when millions of women who got married to men couldn't reproduce...
The point is men no matter what they do can not sleep with another man and have a child.
For whatever reason a woman cannot have a child, the possibility is there. Not with men.
Where did aids come from? When men started putting things places they shouldn't. There's always punishment for our actions.
I guess God had the same thing in mind when millions of women who got married to men couldn't reproduce...
The point is men no matter what they do can not sleep with another man and have a child.
For whatever reason a woman cannot have a child, the possibility is there. Not with men.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:08 PM
AIDS DID NOT COME FROM GAY MEN..... IT'S CALLED RESEARCH!!!! Do NOT play that card. You seriously need to look into your misguided soul and see if what you've been taught to believe is anything more than B/S.
It's always lovely to name AIDS as your reason for disliking Gay people... So what about the millions of children who suffer EVERYDAY? Do you know how often a child falls victims to AIDS? Every 14 seconds. The U.S.A has one of the lowest amount of cases of AIDS/HIV, the same goes for France, Italy, England, etc and everyone of those have a large gay population. It stems from a completely different continent.
So what, not everybody who gets married NEED children. God's original purpose was for humans to multiply on his earth. Now we are reaching a unheard of 7 BILLION people. Did you ever think that God has a creative way of Population control? Or does your mind have such a narrow view of things, that you can't consider it?
I KNOW WHERE AIDS CAME FROM!! NOW THAT WE ARE USING CAPS. GAYS HELP SPREAD IT AND CHILDREN BECOME VICTIMS OF MISBEHAVOIR!!
I think research is your favorite word. If we have such a low amount of aids cases how are children getting it every 14 seconds. Where are you doing all of your research by the way?
Who says the only reason a person can be with another person is for sex? Who says that the only reason a person can love another is for a child? There are plenty of married heterosexual couples who do not have sex and do not have children but love each other very much. There are homosexual men/or women who are together because they care about and love each other. What sex they have is really none of anyone's business. Sex is and should be a private thing. Why God made us the way we are is a mystery that can only be solved once we talk with him face to face. I can only feel that his is sad to see such judgment on the very thing he loves so much -- his people. Each and every one of us. Love is a peculiar thing, it captures us when we least expect it and with someone we may not think it could happen to. Why should homosexuals not get married? How could it possibly affect heterosexual marriages? It can't. It is a fear tactic that those who have nothing better to do but pick on those they don't understand and feel "superior" because they aren't like "them." Grow up. It's time We humans realize that each of us are individuals and have differences and enjoy the variety. If you are a woman and want a man, great, another woman, if that is your thing, men want women, men? whatever. Just keep the personal stuff private. All of us. I don't like seeing people fornicating in the streets regardless of their preferences. Anyway...just a thought.
I think research is your favorite word. If we have such a low amount of aids cases how are children getting it every 14 seconds. Where are you doing all of your research by the way?
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:17 PM
Hmm, since Gay's don't reproduce, how do children become victims of the misbehavior? Nuff said!
And that statistic is a worldwide figure... Nowhere in that did it say America's statistics. Glasses anyone?
Thank you Darrick.
Did you know that AIDS actually came from the green monkey in Africa? Through consumption of the monkey - usually raw - AIDS was spread on. Yes, it first appeared in America through gay men, but that is no reason to condemn them. Men cheating brought it to their wives. Unclean needles spread it. And in the beginning, hemophilic children caught it because they needed frequent blood transfusions. Are you damning them all? Especially the children, or the innocent wives, or patients of sloppy doctors? There are a number of people who get AIDS through unhealthly sources, like drugs, sex, etc., but that is not a reason to not help them.
Before criticizing, ma'am, do some research. It might just help you.
You sure are defending them. Maybe you are one, or have had experience in that area.
I said children are victims. I'm not saying it's their fault.
You sure are defending them. Maybe you are one, or have had experience in that area.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:21 PM
Are one what? A "Gay"... Umm, read the other blogs... Remember "research" is my favorite word, I'm not going to do it for you! But what I do, or what you do is neither of our business, nor the governments... God's not going to ask me, "Darrick what did Annette do in her bedroom?".. So you don't need to worry about anyone else as long as they are not physically harming you!
Its not ok for Michael to give his opinion about homosexuals or transgendered people, but its ok for everyone else to judge him for his opinion. Hmmm...doesnt sound quite fair to me. These sexual perversions are just the begining of the moral breakdown in our society. I believe we have slipped past the point of rescue. and Darrick_04 its not only the republican party thats taking our freedoms, I belive the democrats have done more than their share in that regard.
darrick there is one thing you know..it all.
These sexual perversions are just the begining of the moral breakdown in our society. I believe we have slipped past the point of rescue. and Darrick_04 its not only the republican party thats taking our freedoms, I belive the democrats have done more than their share in that regard.
-- Posted by greasemonkey on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:27 PM
WRONG. Nobody is judging Michael.. We want him to prove which "empires" have fallen b/c of his LUDICROUS statement.
And
darrick there is one thing you know..it all.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:27 PM
Forgive me for KNOWING what I say, before I say it... But I accept the concession speech.
grannyapple
The word "homosexual" has the word "sex" in it because that is what they are doing together. Not just loving each other because they care.
But I accept the concession speech.
what the heck does that mean?
As far as gays being together, if God intended this he would have made it where both sexes could have children. It takes one man and one woman ,just like God intended for marriage. He made Adam. He did not want Adam to be alone so he made out of him woman. Woman is for the man. That's why when you are married you are as "one". Works together like a puzzle! When you look from the front you do not piece together. Not natural, and we all know the back is intended for other things. Now that I've said more than I should I'm going to stop.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 9:55 PM
What do you know? My Savior wasn't even coceived because of SEX... Hmm... Though you'd know that much! So, you're telling me he put Mary and Joseph here to get married, have sex, and bear children... Umm, didn't happen.
That's why our Lord and Savoir Jesus Christ was so special. No comparison.
grannyapple
The word "homosexual" has the word "sex" in it because that is what they are doing together. Not just loving each other because they care.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:31 PM
HEY... why don't you tell us when that word was introduced into the Bible? I bet you have no clue.
That's why our Lord and Savoir Jesus Christ was so special. No comparison.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:35 PM
Right.. Except that you completely contradict yourself.
That word is not in the bible, but men doing the act are. Anything else?
Well, politics now, how interesting. Both parties have had their paws into the working man's pockets for decades. But the republicans have done some really detestable things these last eight years. The economy is in the toilet, gas prices keep rising, employment and wages are not keeping up with the rise in costs, we are in a war that cannot be won, we have lost over 4000 young men and women to this war, we are trillions in debt (we weren't in debt at all when bush took over) The administration uses fear and paranoia to keep the people in line. Citizens phones are tapped, our emails are read, airlines seize and search, medicaid has been reduced so that over 32 million AMERICANS cannot get healthcare. Medicare costs are horrendous and medicines are reduced so that our seniors are unable to take prescribed medications because they cannot affort the atronomical pharmaceutical costs. when the senate and congress proposed to stop torture, our dear president vetoed the bill. As Americans we are supposed to abhor that type of behavior. Doesn't he realize if we do it to the other side, they will do it to our boys and girls over there? We have lost an enormous amount of respect from not only the enemy countries but our friendly countries. So...vote republican if you must, but they have done a great deal of damage these last eight years and it will take a long long time to undo what has been done. Oh, and they have made it clear that it's all the gay's fault. If it weren't for the gays and the hispanics all would be ok...how stupid does our government think we are?
Right.. Except that you completely contradict yourself.
How's that?
It takes one man and one woman ,just like God intended for marriage. He made Adam. He did not want Adam to be alone so he made out of him woman. Woman is for the man. That's why when you are married you are as "one". Works together like a puzzle! When you look from the front you do not piece together. Not natural, and we all know the back is intended for other things. Now that I've said more than I should I'm going to stop.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 9:55 PM
Explain how this applies to the 'Virgin' Birth..
AMEN grannyapple!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jesus is the only one that came into this world in that way. I can't believe I have to explain this. God has only sent 1 son.
But I accept the concession speech.
what the heck does that mean?
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:33 PM
It's the speech you give when you have lost. You should consider reciting it to yourself. Because as soon as Phoenix and myself gave you statistics you had nothing more to say about AIDS... Your paronia is on the brink of xenophobia. Get over yourself and your entrapment of spoon-fed lies.
Jesus is the only one that came into this world in that way. I can't believe I have to explain this. God has only sent 1 son.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:43 PM
You have to explain it because it contradicts the very statement you can't stick to now.
Jesus is the only one that came into this world in that way. I can't believe I have to explain this. God has only sent 1 son.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:43 PM
Hmm, AND Jesus didn't get married.. Or did he? He also didn't have any children? Or did he...
See what I mean. You say God's purpose for man was for each of them to have a woman. What about in the Old Testament when they have 9,10,11 or more wives? Just because God wanted that then, he doesn't seem to want it now... See my point. You can't pick and choose which scriptures you choose to defend your useless rhetoric.
blah blah blah. You use big words. You must be a small man with a loud voice. We all know how Aids is transferred, I said how did it get started? and I'm sitting here explaining to jesuslovesevery1 that God only sent 1 son and that Mary had the only virgin birth.
Aids like I said was spread when men started putting things in places they shouldn't..whether it be monkeys, other men, then transferred to women, through the blood that's donated to children accepting this transfussion. What's more to be said?
hmm, so Annette you are saying the "men" are having sex. What about lesbians, they are having sex too? What about all heterosexuals Are they having sex? How about teens in schools? sex? God made us sexual beings, but not everyone is having sex. Some are Some are not. So what? It's a natural function. Even though there are those who feel that it must only be done by married couples man and woman only. Why are we so concerned about what people do behind closed doors? who cares? Not ME!
You say God's purpose for man was for each of them to have a woman
-- Posted by nascarfanatic on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:50 PM
I want you to find where I said that.
granny
It's suppose to be between a husband and wife.
What's more to be said?
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:51 PM
That it is NONE of your business what other people do. You didn't ask the states to vote on YOUR right to marry. You don't have people trying to take rights from you that you don't currently have. You don't suffer the astonishing ridiculing from uneducated citizens who like to blame ALL the world's problems on minorities. Minorities who once had no voice, and now they do. You just don't like that you have to contend with someone on the issue.
Q:I want you to find where I said that.-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:54 PM
A:He did not want Adam to be alone so he made out of him woman. Woman is for the man. That's why when you are married you are as "one". -- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 9:55 PM
OMG, another Christian hypocrite? Does Hell have enough room for these people?
God gave the right for man and woman to marry. Not the states. The reason they fight for things like that is because it's not natural.
granny
It's suppose to be between a husband and wife.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:56 PM
And when the Bible was written a man could have 9,10, or as many wives as he wanted... Do you agree that it should still be that way? Make up your mind. Because that is in the Bible too!
Ahh, Darrick you warm an old woman's heart. May you keep on thinking...That's what many do not do!
A:He did not want Adam to be alone so he made out of him woman. Woman is for the man. That's why when you are married you are as "one". -- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 9:55 PM
OMG, another Christian hypocrite? Does Hell have enough room for these people?
-- Posted by nascarfanatic on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 11:00 PM
Like I said find where I said "man's purpose is for each of them to have a woman. I believe what you copied and pasted said nothing like that. Get off!
God gave the right for man and woman to marry. Not the states. The reason they fight for things like that is because it's not natural.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 11:00 PM
LOL... Do you have any idea of all the things the Bible calls unnatural?
1)Shellfish
2)Clothing made of TWO different fabrics
3)Eating rabbits
4)Eating pork
5)A man lying with his woman during "that time of the month"
6)Sewing two different seeds in the same field
None of these people lobbied Congress for it to be made legal...
Nascarfanatic, To answer you with a little humor to lighten the mood. Men couldn't handle 9,10, or so wives...can you imagine buying coach or dooney and burke purses for 10 women? a car for each one and make sure everything is equal? Gosh, it's hard enough keeping things ok for the kids...
A:He did not want Adam to be alone so he made out of him woman. Woman is for the man. That's why when you are married you are as "one". -- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 9:55 PM
OMG, another Christian hypocrite? Does Hell have enough room for these people?
-- Posted by nascarfanatic on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 11:00 PM
Like I said find where I said "man's purpose is for each of them to have a woman. I believe what you copied and pasted said nothing like that. Get off!
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 11:03 PM
Explain the difference then. That's right, there isn't... Change the words, the meaning stays the same. Good night
Nascarfanatic, To answer you with a little humor to lighten the mood. Men couldn't handle 9,10, or so wives...can you imagine buying coach or dooney and burke purses for 10 women? a car for each one and make sure everything is equal? Gosh, it's hard enough keeping things ok for the kids...
-- Posted by grannyapple on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 11:05 PM
HAHA, I can barely afford the one I have... Good point.
And when the Bible was written a man could have 9,10, or as many wives as he wanted... Do you agree that it should still be that way? Make up your mind. Because that is in the Bible too!
If you read the bible that was up until the 10 commandments. Of course stubborn people still try and do this.God made the rules!
Ahh, Darrick you warm an old woman's heart. May you keep on thinking...That's what many do not do!
-- Posted by grannyapple on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 11:01 PM
LOL...I will continue to think, so long as my brain is capable. Otherwise, what is its purpose? Some folks need not answer that.
Grannyapple,
So the Bush single handedly done all those things with no help whatsoever from congress. LOL. I dont like Bush either but when my tire went flat I didnt blame it on him. Im just saying that Republicans alone didnt do all those things. To think that is just silly. Its like telling kids that if they dont brush their teeth that the boogeyman will get them. We also have lost less servicemen during wartime than peacetime. We lose between 1500 and 2000 servicemen a year during peacetime due to training accidents or whatever. Any loss of life by these brave men and women is horrible, but to blame every single one of those deaths on the republicans is insane.
OK, Now.
The breakdown of morality is a fastrack to the decline of any people. You look at diseases that have been spread, because of sexual immorality. If sex had been kept between a husband and wife then we wouldnt have 1/3 of the disease we have now. I am not saying we should make it against the law to be homosexual or transgender, but they shouldnt be allowed to marry. Some people cant marry their sisters or their farm animals when they want to, so are those peoples rights being violated, also.
Michael, Michael, Michael, what a fire you have set onto the wicked and under the called. It is so easy to see the left and right of the cross when you inflame the two with the word. The closer you get to preaching the pure word the greater the fire you set.
As I said before just make use of the heat and cook a little more.
I was going to bed when I looked at this blog and seen the number of post at 67 when just hours ago it was just started and was at 0. Thought you might want a break tonight and let them have someone else to chew on for a while. What in the world did you say to bring them all out of the woods (or closet) at once on you. I read your start of the post and did not see anything that you said that was capable of stepping on so many toes. As I read through the post it appeared as if everyone thought you had called them a homosexual and they were trying to defend themselves. What did you say to set off such a hostile retaliation. There was indeed some sore feet tonight.
Whatever you do, do not mention Ben-gay as a treatment for the sore toes. I got growled at and chewed on for offering it in passing as I was rubbing it on my sore neck tonight to the ones I had rubbed the wrong way. Within minutes I was in a subject about sexual orientation of which I wanted to know nothing about.
What is in the air tonight?
Hope it leaves before sunrise in the morning.
Good night! (and it has nothing to with with anybodys' sexual orientation) To each your own. Just keep it away from me.
Parkerbrothers,
It appears your homophobia even has you a little paranoid. You are a one-tuned man indeed, because, even as you close off the evening, you can't help but say: "What in the world did you say to bring them all out of the woods (or closet) at once on you". It seems like those you criticize are comfortably in their sexuality; are you?
phoenix_rising,
Sorry, but when I read what had went on here in a period of 3-4 hours I was astounded to see what appeared to be so many people sensitive to and defending homosexuality. Why did everybody get so uptight about it? Why did their toes appear to be stepped on?
I admit I am tired and probably missed something but it looked like either a gay rally being picketed by Christians or a Christian rally being protested by gays.
As I said, I am probably just tired and missed it but for someone to just click on here I believe they would have felt like they were in the middle of a demonstration.
To bed I do go and maybe it will appear different in the morning.
What a day. I thought I heard someone say they had been eating raw green monkeys and got aids. Guess they should have fried the thing and solved the whole epidemic or perhaps just stayed with the simple missionary style. Wonder if it taste like chicken?
I don't know...Why don't you tell me? Since you seem to know everything, I'm sure you can also inform everyone here of the cause of AIDS, how to cure it, and the recent developments made in treating it.
Tonight has not been a gay rally. It has been people defending the beliefs and rights of others on a blog page. I can understand that an uptight 50 year old man can hold homophobic tendencies, but the use of "Ben-gay" on a sore spot and the lightening the loafers remarks only show how immature you are. I guess just because you grow older doesn't mean you grow up.
You have continually claimed that you want to know nothing about anyone's sexuality on here - and yet you continue to throw it in our faces. So what if people are gay? God created them, too. And as long as they have the love of God and accept Christ, then what does it matter?
Everyone here has an honest desire to share with and learn from others ideas about faith, religion, and God. No one wants to be name called (as you tend to enjoy doing to Evil Monkey) or picked on for their beliefs, inter alia. But private rights of people are something protected by this nation. If you don't like it, then leave. There are plenty of other places in the world that hold the same values you do. May I suggest the Middle East?
Your comments are single minded and repetitive; have you checked lately to make sure your CD player isn't on repeat?
And lastly, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. How would you feel if you were insulted for your sexual orientation? Would you not want to be understood and seek sanctuary from those around you? Put yourself in another person's shoes...before putting that same foot in your mouth.
For your edification and enlightenment, I included two link that shares the history of AIDS:
http://www.aegis.com/topics/timeline/def....
http://www.avert.org/origins.htm.
I hope you find this helpful. Also, for more information, I have this Google page ready for your perusal:
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=AID....
I sincerely hope you read this information. No matter what your sexual orientation is, it never hurts a person to be well-versed in international and national matters of health...or to better understand the pain that someone experiences because people decide not to understand their situation.
Wow . . . I thought other empires fell because of wars, famines, greed or the lack of organization and communication. I never knew it was those sneaky transgendered people. I feel so enlightened now and see the world in a whole new way!
I am going to write President Bush and tell him that the way to win the war on terrorism and in Iraq is to get rid of all transgendered people. Yes, that is the secret key to it all.
And yes, everything I said was in sarcasm. I don't understand the whole transgendered community and the problems they experience but I know its not my place to judge them . . . God knows what is in their hearts and what they might be suffering. Michael, I am afraid you are beginning to sound more and more like Fred Phelps and his followers and that is unacceptable.
Think about it? What places in the world outlaw homosexuality? Transgendered people? Other religions? Adultery? Abortion? None other than the Middle East and many UNdeveloped countries. It seems if that's the way you want everything Michael, you live on the wrong side of the globe. I'd gladly reimburse any expenses you incur on your journeys!
-- Posted by darrick_04 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 8:04 PM
Can we start a fund for him? I'll put in some money for that!
-- Posted by phoenix_rising on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 8:20 PM
Where do I send the money?
phoenix_rising,
Wrong again. I can not tell you a lot about AIDS? I can tell you a little about it though which is enough. It is diffinitely a sexually transmitted disease (plague).
I can tell you just a little more about it also. If you engage in certain activities that are detestable before the God of our Bible you are at the highest risk for having it latch on to you.
I can also tell you about what happened to the city of Sodom that had a word coined after it that referred to the "sin of Sodom." That city has remained destroyed for centuries and only in the last century has it been partially thought found and uncovered. All evidence shows it experienced a catastrophe exactly like what is descibed in detail in the Bible about it.
In reference to your comment:
"So what if people are gay? God created them, too."
Yes he did. He also gave them this free will he entrusted us with which we all abuse (including me). He gave us an instruction manual also that tells what is pleasant and what is detestable before him.
In reference to your comment:
"But private rights of people are something protected by this nation. If you don't like it, then leave. There are plenty of other places in the world that hold the same values you do. May I suggest the Middle East?"
Yes it is protected by this nation. This same protection you mentioned has been and is being provided by people who put their life on the line daily to insure we all have these privledges including free speech. Whether you realize it or not some if not all of the same ones on here that are in a state of denial about homosexuality are the same ones that will condemn the efforts being made now and the lives given to protect these rights in the war on terrorism. Someone condemning mentioned that 4000 of our soldiers have lost their lives in this battle. I think they need to study the real numbers again. Their were almost 3000 lost in one day on one city block on our own soil. I think the Bush administration had seriously reduced the per day loss rate since he guided us down the road he choose. In the days since 911 he has reduced the average daily loss rate down to .926 per day from the 2,740 per day. If the previous administrator had been worried about the problems that lay on his desk instead of the one kneeling under his desk a lot of lost lives might have been prevented. 911 was not the first attempt on our soil. Hopefully it was the last.
In reference to your comment:
"So what if people are gay? God created them, too. And as long as they have the love of God and accept Christ, then what does it matter?"
I have to comment and say that if they "have the love of God and accept Christ" as you say, it will matter to them also. All people who have the two things you mentioned above will want to please the same. Homosexuality is not pleasing to the God I know. Just go try to find a true Sodomite today and ask him what happened when Grandpa would not listen.
In reference to your last comment:
"And lastly, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. How would you feel if you were insulted for your sexual orientation? Would you not want to be understood and seek sanctuary from those around you? Put yourself in another person's shoes...before putting that same foot in your mouth"
How would I feel? First I would want to know what God thinks about my sexual orientation. If my sexual orientation was acceptable in his eyes I would defend my orientation. If my sexual orientation was detestable before my God I would come out of denial and try to change it to line up with his "wants" for me which is actually my "needs". If a homosexual can ever learn to distinguish between his own "wants" and "needs" and line those up with God's "needs" and "wants" the fear of AIDS will subside in him.
I will definitely view the 2 sources you have found out of the 217,433 total sources and opinions available. It still will not change God's opinion and therefore mine either.
I was under the impression that a gay male flight attendent was the first confirmed case of aids in the US. He spread it to other gay males at a huge orgy. It eventually was introduced into the hetersexual population through bi-sexuals and drug addicts sharing needles. I saw a segment on 60 minutes about this many years ago.
Are you now saying that is not true, Darrick? If so, can you tell me exactly how aids started and what was the first confirmed case in the US? I'd like to know your sources also. Thanks
http://www.aegis.com/topics/timeline/def...
I thought Aids started in Africa originally from an animal bite and progressed through the tribes and communities? Are you saying that all the millions of people in Africa that have Aids or who have died from it are gay and it was spread from massive gay orgies and that is God's punishment for it?
I am sorry, but to blame Aids solely on gay people and to say its part of God's wrath is to admit your ignorance out loud and in public. Yes, I am sure there are gay people who are passing it around but so are straight people and children and it can from other ways than just sex . . . such as blood transfusions and drug use.
Please people, educate yourself (and that doesn't mean pulling information from Wikipedia) before making comments.
yeah 60 minutes is sooooo truthful. (rolls eyes) because news is never been sensationalized eh?
I think the big picture here is not gays, transgendered individuals, or any of the specifics mentioned here. The big picture is immorality and how we as a society are accepting and/or condoning it. Whether we're talking about giving transgendered people their own bathrooms or allowing our leaders to practice in drugs and prostitution...it appalls me as a Christian that we are so fearful of sounding intolerant to allow this public display of immorality to permeate our lives and the lives of our children.
Why are we so concerned about what people do behind closed doors? who cares? Not ME!
-- Posted by grannyapple on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:51 PM
Unfortunately, this isn't happening behind closed doors. It's happening right in front of our faces and being crammed down our throats.
I have my own sins to worry with and will gladly stick to those until others immorality is brought in front of me. Then, as a Christian and a follower of His Word, I am to confront it.
exactly pleasebenice!
Grannyapple seems to sun up this argument best.
This conversation has gone into issues that have heated up the community, especially the Christian one. We all have to make up our own minds as to what to think and feel about these situations. What would Jesus do if he saw people being cast out or hated? Did he not dine with tax collectors, who were hated by most people in the cities Jesus visited? Did he not take care of people who needed help?
I know this topic can be scary when you look at it. I know people who have similar views to the contrary ones I mention.
parkerbrothers, as you mentioned earlier parkerbrothers, we humans are given free will. We cannot predetermine who we will fall in love with, how we will live, and what needs we will experience. And the fear of AIDS isn't all homosexuals care about. They worry about all the things we do: paying bills, having a job, finding time to shop for groceries, etc. I believe you really don't know a lot about AIDS and won't take the time to look up information on it. You can quote that over 200,000 sites about AIDS are listed on Google.
But have you taken the time to see that the keywords "Jesus Christ" have over 33 million hits?
I have done research on AIDS and other immunodeficiency diseases. I would be happy to share the information I learned with you. LadyPhoenixRising124@gmail is my email account. I have no qualms if anyone wants to email me. All I ask, especially from you, parkerbrothers, is that you look at the information with an open mind, inside of a closed, predertermined one.
"Let's just look at logic here. The effects on a business of calling ... gender confusion a 'civil right' is all sorts of new regulations heaped on businesses. You have the necessity of building separate bathroom facilities because you've got men who are claiming that they are women. They have to use the restroom. Obviously, biological women don't want to share a restroom with a man in a dress," LaBarbera points out.
-I copied this out of the article and I must reply to it. If the man is in a dress, he is either not interested in me or doesn't want me interested in him.
One more thing, I have a friend who is NOT transgendered in the sense that she has not had surgery to make herself into a male anatomically. We had gone into restroom together and were walking out when a nice lady looked at my friend and said "honey, the men's restrooms are across the hall" my friend looked at the lady and summoned her most girly voice and replied "but, I'm not a man". Needless to say, my friend get's those comments all the time and she shook it off, the lady was embarassed beyond belief and turned 8 different shades of red. Ask yourself this, should my friend have used the men's restroom? Although she is a female she is not at all attracted to men, it's the polar opposite really, she's attracted to women. So, forget the man in the dress and think about the woman in the jeans. What do ya suppose they do?
Like I said find where I said "man's purpose is for each of them to have a woman. I believe what you copied and pasted said nothing like that. Get off!
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 11:03 PM
-I must admit I didn't read through each and every one of these comments but this one caught my eye. What about the men that aren't deserving of a dog? Do they get alloted a woman as well? Kinda like saying they are owed one? Just looking for a little clarification.
Amen LauraSFT!
I do not see how gay or transgendered people are the breakdown of society? I am not a woman of big words, so someone please explain how it is in simple terms. Adultery is sin, but we have presidents and govenors cheating on their wives daily. For me it seems if they cannot be faithful to those closest to them , how are they going to right by us? I do not think we will. Gluttony is a sin. I am overweight. Do you think God loves me any less? I a sure he loves me just as much. Only when we become perfect ourselves , should we have any right to judge others. I do think man and woman should be together,but that is what i have been taught. I also know that we cannot help who we are attracted to or who we love, and when you truly love someone it is not based on sex between them.
Annette,
What about the transgendered children? Do you think when they are miserable in their own bodies and insist that they are the wrong gender that its about the act of sex? Do you think someone would say, "I am tired of being male, I think I will try the other side for awhile?" Transgendered persons do not choose that lot in life for themselves. They are born that way. Their decisions are not an act against God. You need to stop being so judgemental of others. Homosexuals and transgendered people do not wake up one day and choose to lead a life that many small-minded judgemental people would condemn them for.(some would even kill them for) What would you do if your child, sibling or another loved one told you they were gay or transgendered?
But the republicans have done some really detestable things these last eight years. The economy is in the toilet, gas prices keep rising, employment and wages are not keeping up with the rise in costs, we are in a war that cannot be won, we have lost over 4000 young men and women to this war, we are trillions in debt (we weren't in debt at all when bush took over)
-- Posted by grannyapple on Wed, Mar 26, 2008, at 10:39 PM
Darrick,
Aren't you going to reprimand granny for not doing her research?
granny,
All these "facts" occur because we have a republican in office? I'm sorry granny, but we certainly did have a debt before Bush came along. I agree that he didn't do a good job, and I am disappointed, but the entire debt has been climbing for decades.
I guess our economy will be back to normal once we put a democrat back in office. I can't wait for the days of Carter again. Those were wonderful economic days. 15% inflation, 20% interest rates, 8% unemployment. Can't wait for that....
phoenix_rising,
You are right. I do not know a lot about AIDS. I do know enough about it however to know I do not want to be around anybody doing the things that are high risk and attractants to the disease. I also know the things that are high risk behaviors are detestable in the sight of God.
As long as they keep the nasty stuff away from me they can have at it. I always had a dog as a pet growing up as I do now so the increased demand for gerbils has no effect on my happiness.
yeah 60 minutes is sooooo truthful. (rolls eyes) because news is never been sensationalized eh?
-- Posted by Evil Monkey on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 10:40 AM
Evilmonkey,
Have you ever found anything you can believe in just a little.
Actually it is easy to see what you believe in...nothing.
That is a sad state to get in.
Murphy
I'll have to disagree with you on this.
someone would say, "I am tired of being male, I think I will try the other side for awhile?" Transgendered persons do not choose that lot in life for themselves. They are born that way. Their decisions are not an act against God.
God would not make a child like that. I have a cousin that turned out to be gay and I must say my aunt and uncle had a hand in that, plus his brother that was adopted used to molest him. They wanted a girl and they treated him like one. There are several cases where when gays talk about their past they will say they were molested in the past. Being molested messes with your mind. It's a serious thing and they usually don't get the help they need when things like that happen. I've actually talked to my cousin about this and that's when things started turning for him. So I got my information first hand. I still love him and I know he can change.
If you don't think God would make a child "like that" you need to open your eyes a bit... Have you no idea any of what the people have told you? The majority of transgendered folks are born with one or the other sex organ, but the opposite hormones. I guess you think God wouldn't make chidren with Down's Syndrome, Sickle-Cell-Anemia, or any other inherited trait based on the alleles of the chromosomes aligning incorrectly...
Take a science course if you don't understand it.
Unfortunately, this isn't happening behind closed doors. It's happening right in front of our faces and being crammed down our throats.
I have my own sins to worry with and will gladly stick to those until others immorality is brought in front of me. Then, as a Christian and a follower of His Word, I am to confront it.
-- Posted by pleasebenice on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 10:53 AM
Who is the last person that has "done this in front of your face, and crammed it down your throat"... Xenophobia! Move to Iran, they welcome people with thoughts like yours.
How on earth does someone have a hand in their child "turning out" to be gay.
Just treating their child like a girl does not make them gay...I was the biggest tomboy in the world growing up but I didn't turn out gay.
I hope you really don't believe being gay is a choice? Why on this earth would someone choose to be gay when people treat them so badly and look down upon them? Why do you think they stayed in the closet for so many years?
I'm sick of your comments where you try and act like noone knows anything but you. You say you believe in God and then you talk about how imperfect he is. God knows exactly what he's doing. Not me. Maybe one day you can take all your anger out on him. I'm sure that will go over well. God is in control not you. Maybe you can take the science course and then explain to everyone how wrong it is and everyone who had a part in it.
Diana, AMEN. My mothers was a tomboy as well. The only girl amongst FIVE brothers, so she played and fought just like a boy. And well, she's my mom, so apparently she didn't turn out gay either. Annette just wants to make it all seem like it's a choice, or that some externality has caused someone to be gay. Until she steps out into the world and understands that none of the people she is afraid of, are trying to take anything away from her. I can't say that for the same thing for her gays though, because their biggest enemy is intolerance, stereotypes, and close-minded people. Sounds JUST LIKE the 1960s only with a different group of people.
Well Dianatn
It is a choice. They stayed in the closet for so many years because it was not acceptable. Now it's the popular thing and everyone's trying it. Especially if you're sissy boy and don't fit in you might try and go the other way because they love that kind of thing.
I'm sick of your comments where you try and act like noone knows anything but you. You say you believe in God and then you talk about how imperfect he is. God knows exactly what he's doing. Not me. Maybe one day you can take all your anger out on him. I'm sure that will go over well. God is in control not you. Maybe you can take the science course and then explain to everyone how wrong it is and everyone who had a part in it.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 8:17 PM
Can you show me where you've proven anything except your OPINION? Nope...
Hmm, did I say GOD was imperfect? NO... I said the Word, which MAN has torn to shreds is inperfect....
Anger? I'm not the one upset about gay's wanting EQUAL rights, that's you.... Nor am I making excuses to try to justify the reasons for anyone being gay, they just simply are.
Yup, you are correct, God is in control, which is why people like you are becoming less and less a factor in America.... Good day.
As for the parents having a hand in it, they knew the adopted brother was doing this and they never stepped in. I was a tomboy to and had some of the girls I played ball with turn out lesbian, but that was because they were so tomboyish the boys did not acknowledge them so they tried the other. I think it's an acceptance thing. Try what's left.
gay's wanting EQUAL rights, that's you
NEVER!!!
Oh No you are so wrong.
I have many gay friends most have never even been with a woman. So how could they have ever decided they were not fitting in and decided to go the other direction.
Although I can say there are those that experiment with the same sex but they are not homosexuals.
And if you think all homosexuals are sissy boys you need to back up and regroup....come to the gym one day. They are anything but "sissy boys"
Homosexuality is not a disease you can catch. So there is no need for you to fear them. I have never heard of a homosexual trying to convert a heterosexual over to their side..
It's a sin plain and simple. It's a sickness and should not be displayed for someone to get the idea. Parents should teach their kids when they hear about it that it's wrong, and God intended for man to be with woman. It's all about curiosity and we all know what it did to the cat.
Noone is going to change how I feel about this topic, so there's no since in wasting my night on this like I did last night. I hope one day you will see the light.
So you have been given the power to decide "who is a sinner and who is not?"
I thought sure I had read in the Bible "Judge not, lest thou shall be judged also"
"For he who is without sin, cast out the first stone"
I am assuming by the stones you are throwing that you are one of those without sin.
Just like you haven't changed anyone else's mind either. The big shocker for you, will be when heaven is full of all of those folks you didn't think would be there.
I love how you think it's a sin, yet you can't show us where it says it. Be prepared, if you cite anything from Leviticus, you should list every verse before and after them.
So go be a light, to people who are in the dark. Perhaps you should start with the local churches.
People who can't think of anything else but whether the person you love is indented or convex should be doomed not to think of anything else but that, and so miss the other ninety-five percent of life. ~Robert Towne
Goodnight Annette.. Apparently your prayers for serenity have only hit the ceiling. Try again.
No one cares if you change your mind about homosexuals least of which, the homosexuals themselves.
Why do you feel they need your approval one way or the other?
Great quote, Darrick.
Thanks phoenix!!!
Romans 1:24-32
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?sea...;
Awe, now go ahead and tell us just what kind of man Paul was...
To resort to namecalling, Annette, is very childish. Perhaps it is your age that is keeping your from not talking to circles and screaming your own agenda.
As for the parents having a hand in it, they knew the adopted brother was doing this and they never stepped in. I was a tomboy to and had some of the girls I played ball with turn out lesbian, but that was because they were so tomboyish the boys did not acknowledge them so they tried the other. I think it's an acceptance thing. Try what's left.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 8:27 PM
Can you honestly say that just because they were tomboys they had to turn to women to find love? That's ridiculous. And unless you're a registered psychologist that can attest to the state of minds of these girls and boys, then it's crazy for you to call them gay because they were tomboys.
I played sports all throughout middle and high school, and some in college. Does that make me a lesbian? Because I played sports and hung out with guys more than guys, am I automatically a lesbian? By your standards, I apparently am. So let me dress up in a suit and tie and parade around with my girlfriend.
Annette, if you are the one deciding who is or is not gay - based on your personal circumstances and judgments based upon those experiences - then God help us all.
Most people have not carefully and prayerfully researched the Biblical texts used by some people to condemn God's lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender children.
Historically, people's misinterpretation of the Bible has left a trail of suffering, bloodshed, and death.
We should be open to new truth from Scripture. Even heroes of the Christian faith have changed their minds about the meaning of various Biblical texts.
The Bible is a book about God. The Bible is not a book about human sexuality.
We miss what these passages say about God when we spend so much time debating what they say about sex.
The Biblical authors are silent about homosexual orientation as we know it today. They neither approve it nor condemn it.
The prophets, Jesus, and the Biblical authors say nothing about homosexual orientation as we understand it today. But, they are clear about this one thing. As we search for truth, we are to "Love one another."
Whatever some people believe the Bible seems to say about homosexuality, they must not use that belief to deny homosexuals their basic civil rights. To discriminate against sexual or gender minorities is unjust and un-American.
Jesuslovevery1:
You have hit the nail on the head in this debate. Thanks for bringing some good sense to it - unfortunately, I don't know how long it will last...
Thank you. I have noticed you have brought the same amount of good sense as well. It's amazing how many of the other "Christians" here spend so much hating on their fellow man, that they forget that Jesus embraced differences, and was still a spiritual guide.
Thank you, too. I appreciate your kind words.
Darrick_04
You asked for biblical reference to homosexuality and got it. So you will have to enlighten me as to what kind of man Paul was and why you disregard what he says.
Jesuslovesevery1,
I do not hate homosexuals the same way that I dont hate thieves or liars. Do we have to hate someone just because we tell them they are sinning. The main problem I have with homosexuality is that it gets shoved down our throats that its ok for them to be gay, and that I should accept it in the same way as the relationship between my wife and I. Well its not the same. In my eyes homosexuality is no different than adultery, beastiality, incest or any other sexual perversion. They are living in sin, but that doesnt mean I hate them.
greasemonkey
Thank you!!! get ready to repeat yourself several times later on.
If those are your views of homosexuality, equating it to "adultery, beastiality, incest or any other sexual perversion", then I must ask: what do you think of heterosexual sex?
But what if that adultery is between a man and woman? That's a heterosexual act.
Incest can be between a man and woman.
And what of other sexual perversions that may take place between a man and woman? And can you further define these "sexual perversions"?
Now, like you, I cannot condone bestiality (for the sake of the animal - three cheers for PETA).
We are dealing with a new social class. Didn't America also have a hard time with women entering the work force in the 1940's? There was a movement to put women "back in their place, barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen". Today we accept women in the workforce. Society is an ever evolving creature, one that we must adjust to - or one you can get stuck in. We may not like everything in society, but give it twenty years. Everything will change yet again, and you will have something else to complain about.
Awe, now go ahead and tell us just what kind of man Paul was...
-- Posted by darrick_04 on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 9:32 PM
Darrick04,
That is the kind of comments that you need to think about before you blurt them out. Deflamating the Bible and the men and women who lived and died in it and of it is not acceptable to most Christians' ears.
Comments like these in one breath and claiming you love God and Christ in another is despicable.
Darrick_04
You asked for biblical reference to homosexuality and got it. So you will have to enlighten me as to what kind of man Paul was and why you disregard what he says.
-- Posted by greasemonkey on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 10:33 PM
(((No No, you are the one who knows the Bible so well, I'm not going to do the research for you. Besides Michael seems to be your good friend, ask him what kind of man Paul was.)))
greasemonkey
Thank you!!! get ready to repeat yourself several times later on.
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 10:45 PM
(((Just don't be like Annette and contradict yourself and become judgemental with not a single fact.)))
Darrick04,
That is the kind of comments that you need to think about before you blurt them out. Deflamating the Bible and the men and women who lived and died in it and of it is not acceptable to most Christians' ears.
Comments like these in one breath and claiming you love God and Christ in another is despicable.
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 10:54 PM
God and Christ are perfect, Paul was not...
Thank you. I have noticed you have brought the same amount of good sense as well. It's amazing how many of the other "Christians" here spend so much hating on their fellow man, that they forget that Jesus embraced differences, and was still a spiritual guide.
-- Posted by jesuslovesevery1 on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 9:50 PM
jesuslovesevery1,
In no far fetch of the mind would Jesus embrace homosexuality or sodomy.
"[To Darrick_04,]
That is the kind of comments that you need to think about before you blurt them out. Deflamating the Bible and the men and women who lived and died in it and of it is not acceptable to most Christians' ears. [Posted by parkerbrothers on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 10:54 PM ]
Perhaps you need to read over your words before opening your mouth, sir. If I'm not mistaken, you have said numerous statements that contradict the values the Bible wants us to live by. Think before acting - or, in your case, typing.
PS- the word is 'defamating', not 'deflamating'
Parkerbrothers,
If someone comes to Jesus and asks for love and believes in God and the sacrifice God made for us, then no matter what their sins or who they are - even Adolf Hitler or Joseph Stalin - Jesus will reach out a hand and wash away their sins. He teaches us to love each other, not hate - and what better way to spread love than to accept people different than us? And I don't believe Jesus would want us to hide who we were or what we were. God knows what we think and what we do - He knew before he ever created us. To go against our natural instincts would be a lie. And lying is against the Ten Commandments.
Just curious: How many friends do you have that are outside of your 1-person social circle?
In no far fetch of the mind would Jesus embrace homosexuality or sodomy.
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 11:01 PM
I'm glad you've talked to Jesus about this. Can you show me in the Bible were he spoke against it? AH, that's right. He didn't...
Hey darrick, I know you don't want to do greasmonkey's research, but I will go ahead and post what I know about Paul the Fraud...
* Paul was Satan in the Flesh
* Paul was never recognized as an apostle by the Disciples OR Jesus
* Paul was never trained by the disciples, the men who walked, talked, and broke bread with our Saviour. He received his knowledge from "revelations."
* Paul's account of his Damascus Road Experience changed every time he told it, thus the disciples knew he was lying.
* Paul declared he was teaching another Gospel of which he himself was the Father
* Paul declared he himself was the son of God
* Paul issued his own commandments and laws for people to adhere to
* Paul taught the exact Opposite of what Jesus and His real disciples did.
* Paul worked to destroy and undo everything Jesus and His disciples did and were doing.
* Paul was never repentant for being the greatest persecutor of Christians at that time! He boasted about it! Over and Over!
* Paul said God's law was a Curse. Jesus said it was a blessing. Who's lying?
* Paul condemned Jesus and His disciples for false teachings, he condemned Jesus Himself for having long hair in 1 Corinthians 11:14, something approved in Numbers 6:5 and Judges 13:5.
* Jesus Said: Keep the Sabbath (Mark 2:27), circumcise male children (Luke 2:21), Paul Said: Circumcision is not necessary (Romans 2:26) that is going against what the Christ said in Luke 2:21.
* In 1 Corinthians 15:1 Paul says that he was not giving them anything but what "he preached." He explained this even further in the second book (or letter) to the Corinthians (2 Corinthians 11:17). It reads - "That which I speak, I speak it not after the Lord, but as it were foolishly, in this confidence of boasting." He's telling you plain and simple he was speaking of himself and not from or of the Lord!" Paul cursed Jesus and His disciples
* Paul claimed he himself was the son of God
* Paul Supported and demanded Adherence to Iniquity (Discrimination), Jesus said to not let it be found among us! Who's lying?
Jesuslovesevery1, you have a knack for pounding that hammer. Thanks for your views - I appreciate them and am so glad you are in this conversation!
Phoenix_Rising,
I believe any sex outside of marriage is a sin. As long as that marriage consists of a man and woman. Sex out of wedlock could be listed along with the other sins I listed. Yes we are dealing with a new social class, one that has no clue of the difference between right and wrong. We have a society where everything should be accepted.
Darrick_04,
I know what kind of man Paul was. What I want to know is how you can determine why Gods word through him should be disregarded. Btw, I never said I knew the Bible any better than anyone else. I am a humble student of Gods word.
THANK YOU NASCARFANATIC!!!!!!
Jesuslovesevery1, you have a knack for pounding that hammer. Thanks for your views - I appreciate them and am so glad you are in this conversation!
-- Posted by phoenix_rising on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 11:14 PM
No problem ;)
So, greasemonkey, because I'm living with my fiance before we get married, I'm going to burn in hell based on your standards. Glad to know that you were made God and given the chance to judge us all.
And with a new social class, it is NEW. We are still establishing standards. The more critical, harsh, and un-openminded people are to realizing this is a new time and time for a new generation to rise up, the harder it will be for us to reach an equilibrium.
Parkerbrothers, Annette, Greasemonkey, and of course, Mr. Bell...
Not a SINGLE ONE of you have responded to Michael's actual blog ... "Things like this happened in other eras to other empires and they crumbled...If this empire would only get back on the rack so nothing could prevail against it and that rock is Jesus Christ and his rod which is the Bible."
So tell me, exactly WHICH empire has fallen due to homosexuality, transgendered folks, etc? That's right, NEVER. The underlying reason for any empire to fall has been the debasing of their currency, their corrupt RELIGIOUS leaders, and how HORRIBLY they treated their very own citizens.... Now, since you are all stuck on the trivial non-issues, how about being able to stand up for Michael, because he speaks the truth. I know why you can't, because he spews for nothing but lies and unfortunately the sheeple come running in his defense.
God and Christ are perfect, Paul was not...
-- Posted by darrick_04 on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 10:56 PM
Well said. Paul was not perfect. He knew he was chief of the sinners. But he loved his God and hated the sin in himself and all the rest of us sinners. He had his own thorn in the flesh to deal with just as we all do.
Homosexuality is indeed a choice. A harder choice to turn from for some than it is for others. A homosexual could experiment with cocaine and might not have any overpowering addicting draw to it just like a cocaine addict might experiment with homosexuality and not feel any compulsions to ever engage in it again. Both homosexuality and cocaine are different addictions or draws that could be equally hard to refrain from for either of the two men. But a choice can and should be made in both cases to withdraw from both of the activities. Yes a choice can be made. Most will however seek an excuse to justify staying with their addiction. It is the nature of the beast.
If someone was engaged in either and loved their God and understood what he thought of both activities they would repent of their acceptance of their vice and turn from it in their heart and in time even their body. Their conscience should hurt knowing they have displeased their Father who loved them.
darrick_04,
Perhaps Sodom and Gamorra were not empires but they were destroyed. As has been noted before, I am sure sodomy was not the only sin there, but it must have been the most remembered since the word sodomy was coined from the legendary "sin of Sodom".
darrick_04,
Perhaps Sodom and Gamorra were not empires but they were destroyed. As has been noted before, I am sure sodomy was not the only sin there, but it must have been the most remembered since the word sodomy was coined from the legendary "sin of Sodom".
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 11:31 PM
Had nothing to do with what you call Sodomy... And you claim to know the Bible... Try again.
darrick_04,
What had nothing to do with Sodomy?
Just go back and read your Bible... Take the close-minded approach, throw it away and see if the REAL underlying reason was that they has been so wrongly engrained into your head.
It's amazing what thinking for yourself can do. Why don't you list ALL of the cities that were destroyed in the Bible, hell the entire world was at one point, right??? I'd say that was the gays fault too...
Parkerbrothers, now tell me does this sound like it came from GOD????
The primarily sexual meaning of the word sodomia for Christians did not evolve before the 500s CE. It was Byzantine Emperor Justinian I who in his novels no. 77 (dating 538) and no. 141 (dating 559) amended to his Corpus iuris civilis was the first to declare that Sodom's sin had been specifically same-sex activities and desire for them in order to create homosexual scapegoats for recent earthquakes and other disasters of his time (see Extreme weather events of 535-536), but most of all to enact anti-homosexual laws that he used upon personal as well as political opponents in case he could not prove them guilty of anything else.
Justinian's were not the first Roman laws prohibiting homosexual behavior (earlier such measures had been included in the Lex Scantinia dating from the year 149 BCE and the Lex Julia dating from 17 BCE, both constituting death penalty for homosexual behavior, while we have allegations that even before Lex Scantinia, such laws existed but direct evidence was lost), however while sticking to death penalty by beheading Justinian's legal novels heralded a change in Roman legal paradigm as in that he introduced a concept of not only mundane but also divine punishment for homosexual behavior. Individuals might ignore and escape mundane laws, however they could not do the same with divine laws if Justinian declared his novels to be such.
Phoenix_rising,
I never said anyone was going to hell, Im just stating that its a sin. I sin every single day. I never said I was God either. I also have not judged you. I just stated that sexual perversions were sin, and any sex outside of marriage is also sin. I had sex before I was married, that was a sin. That is why Jesus is so wonderful, if we repent and call on his name for forgivness we will be forgiven.
Nascarfanatic,
I cant make any sense out of what you said. You have taken things out of context. At that time in christianity people were still confused over whether they should still be following jewish law or what. Paul was making it clear that all you needed for salvation was to repent and ask forgiveness.
Darrick_04,
I dont know enough about world history to say which empires fell and for what reasons. I believe I did give several reasons why they could have. I havent seen Michael spew forth these lies. Everyone talks about not hating or judging people and all I see is everyone hating and judging Michael. I know he loves the lord with all his heart and wants to gain more knowledge. I cant always defend Michael because alot of times I dont know enough to engage in debate. Im just not as educated as alot of people on here and sometimes I cant keep up. I do try to study things before I say anything on here, but I am in no way sheeple.
darrick_04,
I never said the word Sodomy was coined from God. I said the word was coined from the phrase "sin of Sodom".
Your paste had a lot of good information in it. It was amazing to see that the death penalty was prescribed for homosexual behavior a couple of thousand years ago. They probably were not wanting another homosexual uprising to smoke their town to the ground. The destruction of Sodom was still probably fresh on their mind.
Thanks for the info to help me confirm the attitudes about homosexuality in that time period.
Michael stated in the very blog "Things like this happened in other eras to other empires and they crumbled...If this empire would only get back on the rack so nothing could prevail against it and that rock is Jesus Christ and his rod which is the Bible." THAT IS A LIE...
Umm, I don't hate or judge Michael.. He never even comments after he starts a blog because he has nothing else to say. Lies only go so far. Well, greasemonkey, to dissaociate yourself from the "sheeple" label, you must expand your horizons beyond the scope of the Bible. It is a book to guide each and everyone of us as individuals. Just stop thinking everything it says so literal. If you do that, then nothing we do today would be acceptable unto god. Just don't forget that there are only SIX verses that say anything about "homosexuality" and none of those really imply the terminology that we use today. There are however 300+ verses directed specifically at "heterosexuality"... The debate will never end (just browse Michael's archives). But my patronage for human rights will not end because someone who grew up in the 1970s is going to suggest that they can tell me which sins they are worthy of judging everyone for.
If you call yourself a sinner, which everyone is, then why do you feel it is your duty to isolate that one "sin", then equate it with others? Until you can give me one good reason why loving, consenting ADULTS, who wish no harm or foul play on you or anyone around you, and who DO LOVE God with their whole hearts, should not live in the same nation as you, enjoy the same rights as you, and not have to hang their head down in fear of being beat-up or killed, then the debate will never end.
I still ferverently believe that anyone who knows Jesus as their Lord and Savior and who believes in him, will not perish but have everlasting life. The Bible was used to keep blacks in an inferior position in the country, give women NO voice whatsover, and now it is equally humilating another undeserving minority. It's much easier to pick a fight with folks who are so small in numbers, yet their perserverance will outlast your numbers.
Thanks for the info to help me confirm the attitudes about homosexuality in that time period.
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 12:13 AM
Hearts of stone and minds made of air will never enjoy the beauty of emracing differences. Goodnight.
I have not isolated just one sin. I believe the reason I mentioned it would be because THE WHOLE BLOG HAS BEEN ABOUT THAT. If we were talking about all sins, well I dont think we could ever encompass that. I am not picking on minorities. You cannot even begin to compare homosexuality to the civil rights movement of the 60s, if thats what your hinting at. The black people in this country have been persecuted infinetly more than homosexuals. I think that homosexuality has been embraced, if anything by our society. I also never said anything about beating them up or moving them out of this country or taking away their rights. They can still speak freely , own a gun and they can vote not to mention a million other things. If they want to live in sin, then by all means go for it. Their relationship shouldnt be held in the same esteem as a man and womans marriage. My whole entire point for this whole entire blog is as follows: I dont care what anyone wants to do behind closed doors, Homosexuality is a sin. I dont think its any worse or any better than any other sin, but its still a SIN.
People who can't think of anything else but whether the person you love is indented or convex should be doomed not to think of anything else but that, and so miss the other ninety-five percent of life. ~Robert Towne
-- Posted by darrick_04 on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 8:47 PM
Great point. Night ya'll.
Hearts of stone and minds made of air will never enjoy the beauty of emracing differences. Goodnight.
-- Posted by darrick_04 on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 12:19 AM
darrick_04 - Does that mean homosexuals have hearts of stones and minds of air since they do not embrace the different sex?????
Embrace the difference. It might clear your mind and soften your head if you enjoy their beauty.
Their relationship shouldnt be held in the same esteem as a man and womans marriage. My whole entire point for this whole entire blog is as follows: I dont care what anyone wants to do behind closed doors, Homosexuality is a sin. I dont think its any worse or any better than any other sin, but its still a SIN.
-- Posted by greasemonkey on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 12:37 AM
If you don't care, then WHAT ARE YOU COMPLAIGNING ABOUT??? And since it's "no better or worse than any other sin" why do you think it is YOUR right to deny them of their RIGHT to happiness? What will it hurt, after all us straight folks haven't set the greatest precedent of what a marriage should be...
A 50% divorce rate, now THAT is the "esteem that man and woman's marriage" deserves, let me tell you.
darrick_04 - Does that mean homosexuals have hearts of stones and minds of air since they do not embrace the different sex?????
Embrace the difference. It might clear your mind and soften your head if you enjoy their beauty.
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 12:41 AM
Darrick is now logged of apparently but I will answer this...Are you stupid? Have you seen how many girlfriends gay guys have? Again a 50% divorce speaks volumes for straight marriage. Enjoy.
STATEMENT:In no far fetch of the mind would Jesus embrace homosexuality or sodomy.-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 11:01 PM
RESPONSE:I'm glad you've talked to Jesus about this. Can you show me in the Bible were he spoke against it? AH, that's right. He didn't...-- Posted by jesuslovesevery1 on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 11:10 PM
Again... You have failed to answer this. Since JESUS is YOUR Savior, why don't you follow his guidance, and not speak against things in which he didn't... Placing yourself above Jesus's judgement is a tragic mistake. May your soul rest easy.
We lose between 1500 and 2000 servicemen a year during peacetime due to training accidents or whatever.
-- Posted by greasemonkey on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 12:08 AM
That's not true.
Total Active Duty Military Deaths
1996 - 974
1997 - 817
1998 - 827
1999 - 796
2000 - 758
That's including all causes. Accident, hostile action, suicide, illness, etc.
Yes, but people did use the excuse to discriminate against black people at one time because they said the bible stated slavery was allowed and would use scriptures to prove their point and you would be surprised how many people still believe that the bible claims that black individuals are still inferior to the white race. It was amazing to hear how many churches use to preach this kind of doctrine and that people actually believed it. So, I can see where some people might draw comparisons to the gay and civil right movements.
That just goes to show how anyone can twist the word of the bible to justify their hate and bigotry and unfortunately it still goes on today and even within this blog entry.
"Homosexuality is indeed a choice...."-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 11:26 PM
If so, wouldn't it stand to reason that heterosexuality is a choice as well? Personally, I don't remember ever making a conscious choice to be heterosexual. I just was. I really am curious about this line of thinking.
I can not believe everything that I am reading on here. I have quietly read these blogs for awhile now, and I can no longer keep quiet. You people seem to bash random groups of people at various times. I'm tired of listening to ignorant people make hideous comments about things they know little about. Who is anyone of you (not all) to judge someone based on their sexual orientation?? It in no way affects you personally.
I think most of you have nothing better to do than to just be nosey. Join the real world, it's none of your business what anyone does in their life. No one seems to want to get to know the person before they form an opinion anymore. Granted, I'm still fairly young, but I know that there is more to a person than what they look like or who they choose to have sex with.
To tell the truth, I am considered bi-sexual myself. My spouse is not the same sex as myself. I chose to marry because of love and happiness they bring to me. Gender only played a part in the fact that the same sex can't have a legal marriage, and that's all. So, are you saying that I do not have the same rights as everyone else? That's absurd.
And all these "Christians" on here need to step back and take a good look in the mirror and judge yourself before you start judging others. You are the reason people, like me, refuse to go to church or believe in an organized based religion. There are too many hypocrits that believe that they are the only ones worthy of love from God or any other being. I've got a few thoughts for you, since the Bible is technically "historical fiction" (because none of it can really be proven). How can you be so sure that your beliefs are right? What if when everyone dies, we are all wrong about religion? What if there is no Heaven or Hell? What if there is no God? What if everything that you were taught was a lie? Just about every religion, afterall, is based on interpertation of different books. You go to church every Sunday to hear someone give their opinion of a book that they read. It's a glorified book group.
I've read the Bible, and used to be a devot Christian. I find it hard to have faith in something that criticizes everything that doesn't fit into their opinion. Who cares who sleeps with who? If I want to date someone of the same sex, it should be my right. Same as if I want to marry that person. Isn't it a "God given right" for a person to pursue happiness?
I'm rambling, but I am so tired of reading ignorant blogs or comments. People seem to forget that everyone in this world is human - which means that we are made of the same blood, guts, and gore. We all have feelings, beliefs, and should have equal rights. It saddens me to think that there are still people as barbaric as they are to think that just because someone's life is different than theirs that they deserve to be belittled and treated unfairly.
And what makes me even more sad is the fact that everyone is so concerned with who a person sleeps with and is happy being with when there are so much more devastating issues in this world. I am amazed about how little some people care about the real issues: child abuse and neglect, molestation, murder, teen pregnancies, suicide, children getting arrested, random violence, kidnapping, and random sex crimes. The real issues seem not to be important to any of you. It appalls me. I may be young, but I know what is important in this world, and someone's sex life isn't it. It's time that you people grow up, and start maturing or I feel that the children are in for a bad future if they follow your beliefs with the same closed minds. Good day.
I just can't imagine how boring some people's lives must be that they should be so concerned with what goes on in the bedrooms of other people.
Back to the subject of this blog:Transgendered people. If a man is transgendered and has the surgery to turn himself into the woman he believes in his heart he should have been, then as that woman starts a relationship with a man, does that make both of them gay or just the man in the relationship?
Deception82z,
Your remarks were great. I'm so glad you have joined this blog - one more person who has some good common sense and can understand what is really going on in the word. Thank you for your input - it means alot to another defender fo peoples' beliefs. I can't wait to read more from you.
LauraSFT said Back to the subject of this blog:Transgendered people.
It is a very difficult situation for someone to deal with and should be delt with at birth. Most of the time a transgendered baby will have a better chance becoming a female as far as the anatomy reconstruction is concerned. Then you have hormones that factor in as well.
If I ever were to divorce, next time around I think I'll find myself a good wife! I could use some help around the house...LOL
I agree Cheryl . . . considering what most gay people have to go through in this world, I cant imagine them just choosing a way of life that would be filled with so much hardship. If it was a choice, I would definitely be picking the easier option. The point though is that for most people, it is not a choice but just who they are and how they were born. I just don't see people consciously making a choice to be gay or straight. It is absurd!
LOL
Is that a choice that you would feel comfortable making for your child after birth? Deciding for the baby to be a boy or girl? What if you got it wrong?
Of course they make that choice. It may be hard around this town to be accepted, but have you ever been to the Boro and Nashville and seen them parading around? I have. It's people like ya that are making it easy for them. Then you have to explain to your kids why two women are holding hands and they are saying " Yuck" Kids know best. If they do not fit in here there are plenty of places they can go.
Everyone is making up their own rules now. If it feels good do it. Does that make it right? Judging? I'm just giving my opinion like you're giving yours.
Yes, I have no doubt I would make that choice for my child. I think it would be difficult enough to grow up homosexual. I think it would be even worse to be a female in every other aspect and have a male anatomy. I would have to know what hormones my baby had male or female and decide from there.
As for getting it wrong, that's possible. But, I would not want to raise a son that had female hormones and a males anatomy that would not work especially during teenage years when boys are comparing themselves and that sort of thing.
The gays are parading around in Murfreesboro and Nashville all the time? I have to laugh at this stupid comment and the ignorance being displayed. I go to Murfreesboro and Nashville a lot and I never see them "parading" around. I might have seen some gay people holding hands and such but if that is "parading" around then straight people "parade" around a lot to. Heck, I haven seen women that are best friend and are straight hold hands and hug each other.
Man, get a clue people. It's ok to have your beliefs and stand by them but don't make absurd comments that have no basis in real fact or that pander to outlandish stereotypes.
Posted by hhhmmm Prom is coming up and its on their minds and they want to justify it somehow.
This blog wont justify it if it's already on their minds. It's up to parents to educate our kids about sex no matter what their gender preferance may be!
Are you in my shoes? I have seen this and it makes me sick. Usually one of them look male , and I still don't get that. If your going to go for someone that looks like a guy go for the real thing. Parading around is a form of speech. And it's ok for straight people to do that people thats right!! Yeah I said it. Straight people don't get strange looks when they are holding hands and kissing. At least the normal ones don't. If you haven't seen these things you don't get out much, or your blind. Basis in real fact? I know what I saw. This world has gone to crap.
LOL . . . evidently I get out more than you do considering your small mindedness. Of course, I am probably younger than you too and not constrained by outdated thinking or stereotypes.
To be honest, I would rather not see anyone making out with each other no matter if they are gay or straight. Leave that stuff for more intimate places but to be honest, what business is it of mine to tell someone that? NONE!
I am still laughing about all the "homosexuals parading around" . . . I am definitely missing something.
Yeah you are showing your age since you don't know parading around means walking around wanting everyone to see you and notice you. For your information I'm 30. I'd say by your childish comments your about 18? I'd rather have a small mind and not agree with the "popular" things happening. stereotypes? You know a tree by it's fruit.
hhhmmm..., yes I said who care who sleeps with whom....if it is my daughters or my son sleeping with someone there really isn't much of a way to stop them (it wasn't that long ago that I was a teenager) the best I can do for them is to let them know about birth control and disease control and encourage them to be as picky as possible. As far as someone else's kids sleeping around, well it's none of my concern!
Annette 5, I invite you to answer the question that cheryl posed...did you make the choice to be heterosexual? I didn't. Also, I didn't make a choice to not be in an interracial marriage....just happens to be that I am attracted the kind of people I am.
Also I'm still not understanding why my husband and I can "parade" but we must be careful of two men or two women parading. Can ya help me there?
I am 33 and I guess I just have a better understanding how the world actually works . . . and believe me, many gay people do not parade around even in your sense of the definition. Most of them just want to live normal lives like everyone else . . . sure there are some that probably stick out and make a spectacle of them self but that is true in every group of humans no matter what race, ethnicity, sex or even sexual orientation. That is part of human nature and society and if we went by your argument, then we could say that all Muslims are terrorists, all blacks are criminals, and etc. To judge many by the actions of a few is simply another form of prejudice and racism.
Jaxspike, you make an excellent point. Just because someone is gay does not mean we should treat them any differently. To stick all of them into one category dehumanizes them.
And LauraSFT, AMEN! I live just outside of Nashville and go there all the time. I have visited almost every state. And what have I seen? Maybe two or three gay couples holding hands. I have never seen them parading around, trying to get special attention. What does it matter if a gay person wants to hold hands with a person of the same sex? Should straight couples not even hold hands?
Annette's arguments run around and around in circles, yet she does not make a valid point.
If you can Annette,
"For your information I'm 30. I'd say by your childish comments your about 18? I'd rather have a small mind and not agree with the "popular" things happening. stereotypes? You know a tree by it's fruit."
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 11:04
Are you sure that 0 is in the right places? Most of your arguments make as much sense as a 3 year old who has been denied a cookie. And you do have a small mind. That sad thing is you have no wish to step out of your 2 bedroom house with a picket fence and look at the world with OPEN eyes instead of the closed, blind one you see with. No one ever said homosexuality was a popular thing. People are trying to establish themselves in a difficult world - straight or not. Today's times are difficult for everyone, not just a selected few.
Lastly, your comment "You know a tree by it's fruit" is incredibly offense. Do you know where that term has derivites? Back to the days when black people were hung from trees. Ever heard the term "strange fruit"? To equate the word "fruit" to someone gay is very dehumanizing. Are all gays fruits? In your eyes they are - but in your views, an apple and orange look the same.
Some of y'all must have never seen the looks old folks get when they indulge in Public Displays of Affection.
The casual hug,kiss or tender look implies that there might be ca-noodling in private-for MARRIED people over 60!
God knows only young,fit and beautiful courting couples are allowed to feel frisky.
Others are just disgusting horndogs.
Do we HAVE to let the world define/suppress our sexuality?
Only if your a disgusting horndog! LOL
My grandmother was 74 when she died, and up until that moment, she and my grandfather still thought of each other as and felt like they were teenagers. They were married 57 years. She died three years ago, and my grandfather refuses to date. She was the only person he ever kissed, and vice-versa. It was always a comfor to see their constant love and devotion for each other. It gave me hope that there is someone for everyone - be that person straight or gay.
My parents have been together since the 8th grade. They dated for 13 years before getting married, and have been happily married for 34 years. That's 47 years together. And they still act like little kids sometimes - pillow fights, little squabbles over how bad my mom's cooking is, etc. They still kiss whenever they see each other.
I am blessed to have had four people in my life so devoted to each other. I am glad to say that there is even another couple, my future inlaws, who are still as loving and in love as if they were teenagers. They have been married for 33 years. I love to watch how they joke and pick fights with each other, just so they can laugh about it a few minutes later.
My fiance and I are just as affectionate and playful. I can only hope that we, too, will be like the examples set before us.
It doesn't matter if you're straight or gay. What matters is that if you love someone, be with that person. Don't force yourself into a relationship that won't work, where you end up getting divorced with three kids just so you can finally be true to yourself - if you are gay, or if you never really loved your spouse to begin with. No one should feel trapped in such a situation.
I can only hope that everyone can experience this type of happiness and love in their lifes, be it with someone of the same or opposite gender.
That kind of love is something you find only once in a lifetime, if you are lucky. Regardless of the gender you should feel blessed if you have that love.
phoenix_rising
"Lastly, your comment "You know a tree by it's fruit" is incredibly offense. Do you know where that term has derivites? Back to the days when black people were hung from trees."
That's really out of left field. I think what she was saying is derived from the Bible Matthew 7: 16-20. That in no way refers to lynching.
AMEN DIANA!!!
and Annette, I would rather be a gay fruit than a religious nut job. You make absolutely NO SENSE. You preach christianity, claim to be christian, yet you are thumping on your precious bible and using GOD to justify your bigotry, hatred and pure out ignorance toward a whole community of people.
You have no clue how many people you ALONE turn off to God. Personally I am one of them, I sit here reading how you believe and how others on here believe and if that's how I need to be to be the kind of Christian you are, then no thanks. I wonder how proud God would be of you if he were to read all you have said, I think he would shed a tear for you and shake his head in disbelief that you are so hateful and cruel. And then using his name to be that way...such a sad thing.
JMO
AMEN Stolen25!
"For your information I'm 30. I'd say by your childish comments your about 18? I'd rather have a small mind and not agree with the "popular" things happening. stereotypes? You know a tree by it's fruit."
-- Posted by Annette 5 on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 11:04
I find, that you be that young, would be so incredibly close minded, perhaps you need to step out into the real world, the arguements on here sound like something my teen would argue about. My children are exposed to many different people, including homosexuals, and surprisingly they haven't caught the "gay" but since one of mine plays sports, maybe I should watch her, according to you. My mom played softball for 20 years, I never thought to ask if she was a lesbian, perhaps that's why I am fatherless ROFLMAO!!
Isn't happiness and love all God truly wants for ALL HIS CHILDREN? Love is love, no matter what shape, form, color, or sexuality. I have taught my children that and thank God I have wonderful accepting loving children that know God makes people in so many different ways.
and as for the transgendered humans, I feel so sorry for them, they are born (usually) with both male and female parts and the parents have to choose, what if the parents chose wrong? What if they chose boy and they should have been a girl and vice versa. God made those babies the way they were supposed to be, he has a grand plan, and they aren't going to be the downfall of anything, America is not an Empire (laughable to say the least) if anything will bring down an Empire it will be close minded, burn them at the stake fake Christians.
AMEN Stolen25!
-- Posted by phoenix_rising on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 1:33 PM
Thanks :) Phoenix, Glad to have you on here. You make amazing points and it's nice to have others that have an open mind. You, Darrick, Diana and Quantum are the voices of reason amidst a sea of stupidity.
Holy Crap!!! I just realized I, too, must be a lesbian! I played softball for 10+ years and if I weren't pregnant I'd play in the co-ed league this season! Wait?! I'm pregnant...but I LOVE softball. I now have a huge identity crisis, am I a lesbian or not? I don't really find women attractive but I do love softball....what to do, what to do...
Gods word sure does burn when your lifestyle doesnt line up with it. Keep up the good work Michael.
Uh, anyone being burned right now, raise your hand?
Holy Crap!!! I just realized I, too, must be a lesbian! I played softball for 10+ years and if I weren't pregnant I'd play in the co-ed league this season! Wait?! I'm pregnant...but I LOVE softball. I now have a huge identity crisis, am I a lesbian or not? I don't really find women attractive but I do love softball....what to do, what to do...
-- Posted by LauraSFT on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 2:16 PM
LMAO LAURA!! That is priceless, I too am now suffering from an identity crisis, I love touch football, playing softball and I watch nascar, basically I love all sports and partcipated in most of them, since I grew up around all boys...am I a confused married lesbian with 3 children? I think I need some therapy....Care to join me Laura and congratulations on your soon to be new baby :)
Gods word sure does burn when your lifestyle doesnt line up with it. Keep up the good work Michael.
-- Posted by seedsower on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 2:27 PM
I sure am not feeling any heat. I bet you are though. No hand raising here Phoenix.
Disturbia, the more I thought about it the more I think my MOTHER must be a lesbian as well! She's never been very girly and she loves sports especially football! Is it ok with you if I invite her to our therapy sessions? Perhaps we could get a group rate! Oh, dag gum it, and my sister too! She is obsessed with the Yankee's!
Oh and thanks for the congrats!
Uh, anyone being burned right now, raise your hand?
-- Posted by phoenix_rising on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 2:54 PM
Actually, it's kinda cold in my office =)
I grew up in Shelbyville but I moved away and married a guy in the Air Force. I just thought I was open-minded until I really got out into the world. I met some really great people away from this town and have kept in touch with almost all of them. Growing up, I was not exposed to everything going on in the world, only what is taught in this small town. It is only when I moved away from here that I realized there were more than just white straight folks in the world (yes, I am a Senior). I came to accept interacial marriages and gay people. In fact 2 of my closest friends are a gay couple. In fact, if a girl wants a really true friend, the best one to have is a gay male. I accept their lifestyle and they have been together for more than 30 years now. How many straight couples have been together that long? Probably not many.
Didn't our Lord want us to love one another? No, wait. Or is it love one another as long as they are not homosexuals, transgenders or not like us? Grow up Annette. I would like to know what Church you go to, so I can be sure never to go there. And may I say to you that sexual preference is definitely NOT a choice.
It seems all the so-called Christians on this blog, show more hate and bigotry than anyone.
LMAO!! Yes Laura, you can bring you mother and your sister, cause I will have to bring mine as well. I don't know if I should bring my son, he has been around gay people and the Gay might have rubbed off on him lol...Let's check on that group rate, this might be a big group.
and you're welcome :) hope all is well and continues to go smoothly for you.
Annette, I need advice from you, exactly how would I go about keeping my children straight? <--since you believe we are born this way. I mean, my daughter already plays in dirt. And as for my son, well he puts on my mom's knee highs so he can slide on the floor....
Mindyg, your words bring a great deal of sense to this whole argument. I am glad that an older person such as yourself IS so open-minded and accepting. Maybe you can teach others hear to be the same.
Phoenix, there is no teaching to closed minds. I feel that the breath I exhale is more important than blowing it against a brick wall.
Oh! and I'm not THAT old, but am old enough to join AARP.:)
Gods word sure does burn when your lifestyle doesnt line up with it. Keep up the good work Michael.
-- Posted by seedsower on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 2:27 PM
Uh, anyone being burned right now, raise your hand?
-- Posted by phoenix_rising on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 2:54 PM
Phoenix_rising,
I heard that was what the people of Sodom said right before hell fell on them.
THIS IS WHY SODOM WAS DESTROYED...PLEASE DO SOME RESEARCH..
Sodom and Gomorra were destroyed because in their abundance they did nothing to help the poor. How did they acquire that abundance? Most likely they acquired it in the same manner as the abundant have down through the ages. They acquired it by taking advantage of the poor and needy. They oppressed the surrounding peoples. This interpretation, provided by Ezekiel, dovetails with the reason God gives for investigating that is found in the story itself. The interpretation of homosexuality does not fit at all!
The story of the destruction of Sodom and Gomorra is an ethical story. It's theme is how we treat our neighbors, whether or not we accept them as fellow human beings, created by God, with every right to enjoy life and prosper to the same extent as we do, or merely use them for the sake of our own convenience.
Classical Jewish texts concur that God did NOT destroy Sodom and Gemorrah because their inhabitants were homosexual. Not at all. Rather, the cities were destroyed because the inhabitents were nasty, depraved, and uncompromisingly greedy. Classical Jewish writings affirm that the primary crimes of the Sodomites were, among others, terrible and repeated economic crimes, both against each other and to outsiders.
and you being a home builder, I am POSITIVE you fit into this category "taking advantage of the poor and needy" and for using them for the sake of your own convenience. And let's not leave out the other things you are guilty of Parker...nasty, depraved, and uncompromising greed and economic crimes.
Annette, I need advice from you, exactly how would I go about keeping my children straight? <--since you believe we are born this way. I mean, my daughter already plays in dirt. And as for my son, well he puts on my mom's knee highs so he can slide on the floor....
-- Posted by LauraSFT on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 3:44 PM
LauraSFT, I am not speaking for Annette but it will ending up being a choice the child would have to make. Yes it is a choice. To say your child would have no choice is to say your child does not have a brain to think with. I have seen children make the choice to live a gay lifesyle, later make a choice to live a straight lifestyle for years, and later make a choice to live a gay lifesyle again for years. They were making choices with a mind they all possessed.
The biggest insult I have seen on this blog to homosexuals yet is the people who say they do not have a mind to think with and make a choice for themselves.
Telling a homosexual you do not approve of their lifestyle and the God of your Bible does not approve of it in your opinion is no where close to being insulting as to tell someone they have no choice and therefore no mind to use.
Are you all trying to tell homosexuals they can not think for themselves and had to have come prewired with their thinking done for them?
I actually despice the nasty thought of a homosexual even looking at me but I will at a minimum give him credit for being capable of making a choice of what he wants to do unlike some of you.
Parkerbrothers, YOU STILL haven't shown me where JESUS denounced it.
The only CHOICE involved is the day you decide to be honest with yourself. So tell us, when did you literally take a sexuality test where your options were
A) Straight
B) Gay
C) Bi
D) N/A
I've never seen that test. The only decision I personally made, was the decision to STOP pretending to be the person that EVERYONE else thought I should be. THAT is where the brain comes in. Luckily, mine still works.
Are you all trying to tell homosexuals they can not think for themselves and had to have come prewired with their thinking done for them?
I actually despice the nasty thought of a homosexual even looking at me but I will at a minimum give him credit for being capable of making a choice of what he wants to do unlike some of you.
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 5:25 PM
Are you telling me that you made no choice for yourself to be straight? Did you come prewired that way? I sure hope so. I bet every house you build has a closet the size of Texas.
One last thing Annette, I played BASEBALL from the age of 4-15, basketball from 7-15, and would have played others sport had theY been at my disposal, and yet I am not a stereotype that you would like to place me in. "Sissy boy"...
LOL, is that your excuse now? Get a life, and stop bringing everyone else down with your mysery just because you aren't happy.
You can be so crass and judgmental as to despise someone looking at you? I'm sure your views haven't changed in the last fifty years - whether the person be white, black, gay, or straight. And maybe if YOU would look around a little, instead of glaring at anyone who sees you, you would notice a whole world out there - not just the one in your study where you keep God in a box.
You keep talking about the God of our Bibles? He seems much kinder than yours. And if you can find a passage in scripture where God or Jesus directly say "Being gay is bad" (or a smiliar phrase), I will remove myself from the blog. But, of course, if you had found such a piece of scripture already, you would have flung it in our faces through posting the same blog 8 times over.
HEY PARKER, COME ON OUT OF THE CLOSET...YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO, COME ON, IT WON'T BE THAT BAD. YOU ARE SUCH A CLOSETED HOMOSEXUAL, AND YOU WANNA KNOW HOW I KNOW....YOU BARK SO LOUDLY AGAINST IT, THOSE ARE THE ONES HIDING SOMETHING. I DON'T SEE YOU HARPING ON OTHER SINS, EAT PORK THIS WEEK? SO DO YOURSELF A FAVOR, FIND YOU A NICE GUY AND COME ON OUT. WE WILL ALL BE HAPPIER WHEN YOU DO AND YOU CAN FINALLY FIND SOME PEACE...
You have no clue how many people you ALONE turn off to God. Personally I am one of them, I sit here reading how you believe and how others on here believe and if that's how I need to be to be the kind of Christian you are, then no thanks. I wonder how proud God would be of you if he were to read all you have said, I think he would shed a tear for you and shake his head in disbelief that you are so hateful and cruel. And then using his name to be that way...such a sad thing.
JMO
-- Posted by stolen25 on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 1:28 PM
Now that is sad! As a Christian I have read these blogs and have wondered how many on the fence Christians have turned tail and run as far from the cross as they can due to comments made by some of the people on here. Please do not read these comments by the over the top Christians and lump us all together and think we're all this way!
Michael, you start this nonsense and then respond once with venom in your voice and hateful words and then go on and start another nonsense blog. I totally understand you feeling it's your job to spread the word of Christ but you're going about it all the wrong way. You throw out these ridiculous statements that cause division and strife among those who respond and then have your one or two faithful servants who feel sorry for you and try to come to your defense only causing them to appear ridiculous as well!
I just have to ask... do you really think this is what God is calling you to do? I really think more than anything you just get a kick out of having 200 responses and not caring that they are in no way shape or form helping the Gospel at all.
Yep, Vindicated is right, Parkerbrothers. You ready to come out into the open? Or do you like your quiet little world in the closet?
Oh, PB, any remarks about Sodom and Gommora don't count. Read your Bible and stop making assumptions as to what a word could mean and look for the real definition.
DannysGal, you are beyond a breath of fresh air to these conversations. Thank you so much for your words. They are encouraging and really make you think. I know that if I was a new Christian or on the fence about becoming one or leaving the church I would look at these comments and, as you said, turn tail and run.
Parkerbrothers, YOU STILL haven't shown me where JESUS denounced it.
-- Posted by darrick_04 on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 6:28 PM
Darrick04,
As long as your opinion is...... "I wish I could personally say I read the Bible daily but I don't. I feel like it's a big Hollywood production, honestly. Fairytales, magic, witchcraft, wars, etc etc. It all seems odd.".......you will never understand that Jesus does not have to say: Mack, thou shall not mount the back of Jack, to understand homosexuality is detestable in his sight. Even if he did specifically say that you would want to argue that "my name is Billy and he didn't say I couldn't do it with Willy."
You friutcakes can babble all night long with the nuts you were put togther with by no choice of your own as you say. I can hear you all now, "That's just the way we were baked", "That's just the way we were baked", "We had no choice", "They just mixed us all up and put us in here together"
If you don't have a choice then maybe you are a fruitcake.
night, night you nasty devils.
To Dannysgal: yes, this is definitely not the work of our precious Lord. It is not the fruits of the spirit-filled christian - Michael Bell calls himself a pastor yet the pastor of what? He never (or rarely) responds to direct questions. He starts a feud and then sits back and watches. His Minions spend a great deal of time attacking those who seem to want answers to "What Michael Means?" and then get frustrated and go on the attack. Meanwhile, the minions spend countless and I must say fruitless hours attacking and then attacking some more. Most of these people do not know each other and yet, they make snide and unchristianlike remarks to those that they judge rather than witness to. I don't plan on taking part in this ever, but felt you deserved to hear it from another observer that it is too unpleasant to be a part of. I am looking for a place to have good discussion without all the upchuck.
Parkerbrothers, YOU STILL haven't shown me where JESUS denounced it.
-- Posted by darrick_04 on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 6:28 PM
Just because Jesus wasn't explicit doesn't mean it isn't wrong. He never said anything about beastiality either, but I'm sure it is wrong also.
micheal, parkerbrothers, annette and whomever else feels that sexual orientation and gender identity are choices, turn your television sets to abc. 20/20 is doing an episode about medical conditions. In the previews it stated that scientists may have identified the 'gay' gene. More proof that it is not a choice but something you are born with. Open your minds. God cannot hate his own creation.
Yep Murphy's Law I'm listening to it now.
Phoenix and leChat thanks for the encouraging words! It is nice to know I'm not alone :)
Murphy's Law,
I guess he loved it when he flooded all but a few.
God does not hate his own creation.
cfder,
We once had a man working for us that claimed he was in love with a sheep. He claimed he would leave his wife and move in with the sheep if he could ever teach it to say "good morning" and "good night". I found out it was a waste of time trying to explain what was right and wrong to him. He died loving that sheep. Hopefully though maybe one of these will see the light and turn from wrong to right by excersising their free will and choice that comes with it.
If they are right and it is solely genetic we can at least be glad that God set up provisions for Steve not to be able to reproduce from Adam and hopefully he has created a plague to eliminate what is gross and detestable in his sight.
I wish God did not have a wrath but that is a reality of him also.
I don't agree with all this bickering either, as some have recently written on this blog. And, I don't care what people do in their own homes. But people are greatly mistaken if they believe that God doesn't have wrath. Jesus himself showed his anger with the moneychangers.
I once heard Oprah say that she believed there were many routes to God and no one had the only way. This goes directly against what Jesus himself said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through me." Either you believe this or you don't. If this belief is "close minded" as some here have written, then I guess mine will be closed.
If they are right and it is solely genetic we can at least be glad that God set up provisions for Steve not to be able to reproduce from Adam and hopefully he has created a plague to eliminate what is gross and detestable in his sight.
I wish God did not have a wrath but that is a reality of him also.
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 8:39 PM
....49 (years old) going on 13
cfder, you say, "And, I don't care what people do in their own homes".... so what are you trying to accomplish?
And PB,
If they are right and it is solely genetic we can at least be glad that God set up provisions for Steve not to be able to reproduce from Adam and hopefully he has created a plague to eliminate what is gross and detestable in his sight.
I wish God did not have a wrath but that is a reality of him also.
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 8:39 PM
Westboro Baptist is recruiting folks.. You'd fit right in!
cfder,
I used to not want to see his wrath either. It was easier to see a God the way I wanted him to be. But only once I understood his wrath could I comprehend his love.
Your are right about the one way. It is a simple straight line that leads to him. Nothing but confusion sets in when you loose focus of the straight line.
PB what "wrath" have you encountered? You poor pitiful soul...
jesuslovesevery1,
How would you know about Westboro when it is on the other side of the hill of your Sodom.
I can see neither from my valley of green pastures and quiet water.
jesuslovesevery1,
How would you know about Westboro when it is on the other side of the hill of your Sodom.
I can see neither from my valley of green pastures and quiet water.
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 9:14 PM
LMFAO, huh?
PB what "wrath" have you encountered? You poor pitiful soul...
-- Posted by jesuslovesevery1 on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 9:11 PM
None and I never will. I am covered.
When I asked you about the "wrath" you've experienced...
SO EXPLAIN THIS: SINCE YOU'VE NEVER EXPERIENCED IT
I used to not want to see his wrath either. It was easier to see a God the way I wanted him to be. But only once I understood his wrath could I comprehend his love.-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 9:10 PM
jesuslovesevery1 ,
I have not experienced it.
When I say..."I used to not want to see his wrath either." I am referring to acknowledging that wrath is a reality of his character.
When I say..."understood his wrath", again I am simply acknowledging his wrathful nature that he has displayed in the Bible.
Sorry for the confusion.
CFDER you asked:
Darrick,
Aren't you going to reprimand granny for not doing her research?
All these "facts" occur because we have a republican in office? I'm sorry granny, but we certainly did have a debt before Bush came along. I agree that he didn't do a good job, and I am disappointed, but the entire debt has been climbing for decades.
I guess our economy will be back to normal once we put a democrat back in office. I can't wait for the days of Carter again. Those were wonderful economic days. 15% inflation, 20% interest rates, 8% unemployment. Can't wait for that....
-- Posted by cfder on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 6:01 PM
I ANSWERED...
mmm..under the last democratic presidency we had longest period of peace-time economic expansion in American history, which included a balanced budget and a reported federal surplus. Clinton reported a surplus of $559 billion at the end of his presidency, based on Congressional accounting rules.
Clinton left office with a 65% approval rating, the highest end-of-presidency rating of any President who came into office after World War II. BUSH WILL NOT BE ABLE TO SAY THE SAME...
More than 22 million new jobs
Highest homeownership in American history
Lowest unemployment in 30 years
Raised education standards, increased school choice, and doubled education and training investment
Connected 95 percent of schools to the Internet
Lowest crime rate in 26 years
100,000 more police for our streets
Enacted most sweeping gun safety legislation in a generation
Family and Medical Leave Act for 20 million Americans
Smallest welfare rolls in 32 years
Higher incomes at all levels
Lowest poverty rate in 20 years
Lowest teen birth rate in 60 years
Lowest infant mortality rate in American history
Paid off $360 billion of the national debt
Converted the largest budget deficit in American history to the largest surplus
Lowest government spending in three decades
Lowest federal income tax burden in 35 years
Most diverse cabinet in American history
OH YEAH IT WAS SO HORRIBLE UNDER A DEMOCRATIC PRESIDENT...
First of all, I have been through and seen more crap in 22 years than most of you have in your entire lifetime. You don't hear me complaining, because I know that everyone is made different. I believe that everything happens for a reason. And just because you have a crappy experience or see something that you don't like, doesn't mean that only bad will come from it. Living example.
It amazes me just how nieve you are being. The definition of "normal" is based on perception. My idea of normal is probably not the same as everyone else's. Who sets the standard anyway? As far as married people not getting strange looks (as long as they're normal) is a bunch of crap. When me and my husband walk down the street or in a store I get strange looks all of the time. If my daughter is with me, it's even worse. We are a normal family. My husband and I work hard for what we have. We both work and pay taxes, but just because we look different than everyone that's "normal" we get those strange looks that straight people "don't get". Our age plays a big part in it too. I am 22; my husband 25; and my daughter is 3. What kind of looks do you think I get?
I went into a doctor's office with my sister (who is on the boyish side, but is straight - another stereotype) when I was 21 and two older women who were there started to make rude comments that were loud enough to hear. They made the comment "kids having kids". It enraged me, to be honest. I was old enough to have a child. I was married. And I can almost guarantee you that 60 - 70 the women were younger than 18 when they got pregnant. The whole point of this is don't put someone into a catagory when you don't know anything about their life.
Yes, I am a young mother, but I am responsible. I don't spend my weekends drinking and partying. I put my daughter first in my life, and she always will be. She is a great little girl, who is growing up with strong morals. I refuse to let her run amuck.
As far as the prom night thing, and "who cares who sleeps with who", if you raise your children with a sense of morals and respect, they won't be as likely to "experiment". I am going to have the "sex talk" with my daughter when she gets older, and I will do everything that I can to encourage her to wait until she's older and married. If for some reason she choses not to wait, then I will do everything in my power to keep her safe and educated. I am not nieve enough to think that kids listen to their parents all of the time. Let's face it, more kids are having sex and the parents aren't doing anything about it. More adult men are being charged with statutory rape because the parents let their guards down or just don't care. A child will hold the same values as they are taught. If you chose not to set a good example for them, it's your own doings.
I just don't understand how people can call themselves Christians, yet say all these horrible things. I was always taught to "love thy neighbor as yourself" and that God is loving and forgiving along with jealous and wrathful. But I guess it's just which part and interpertation of the Scripture you want to follow and believe. That is one of the reason that we have so many different demonations. Personally, I am tired of being judged by God's sheep (followers) just because I don't fit into life like every other "normal" person. I have my own life, and I am going to live it the way it makes me happy. I don't feel sorry if everyone doesn't feel the same way. Differences are what makes the world interesting and beautiful. I don't want to conform to everyone else's standards. So, if you think that I am going to hell for my beliefs or my way of life, I'll save all of you hypocrits a seat.
jesuslovesevery1 ,
I have not experienced it.
When I say..."I used to not want to see his wrath either." I am referring to acknowledging that wrath is a reality of his character.
When I say..."understood his wrath", again I am simply acknowledging his wrathful nature that he has displayed in the Bible.
Sorry for the confusion.
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 9:27 PM
Confusing? More like Hypocritical, being as you have NEVER experienced his wrath!!! Jesus came so that NOBODY would experience the wrath.
Why don't you protest these things:
Wars, Rape, Murder, Incest, Poverty, Poor Healthcare, Government Fraud, Red Tape Bureacracy, the fact that our government spent more $$$ on investigating Clinton's "affair" than they did on 9/11 (could explain why we attacked the wrong country), Katrina victims, etc etc etc. Oh I get it, it's much easier to be concerned with "gays" who Jesus loves just as much as he does YOU.
PARKERBROTHERS:
It's no wonder all of those homes remain empty in your lovely "Utopia Station"....
Don't you think God would have blessed you with more than TWO of the homes being sold? (one of those in which you live)
I see you said nothing about Carter's administration. I lived through it and bought my first house in '78. I know for a fact what can happen, and you can only read about it in history books. Just because the only democratic president you've known had a good run, the democratic solutions aren't always the best, ref. Carter. Yes, I will give Clinton credit for some of what happened. How much of it was from a Republican Congress the last few years of his term? After all, Presidents don't spend money, Congress does.
But my original point was that granny spouted many inaccuracies and you didn't tell her to do her research as you tell everyone else. The biggest inaccuracy in her statements was that the US had no debt before Bush. Completely false.
I see you mentioned nothing about Regaen's... OR Nixon's... do I need to continue?
jesuslovesevery1,
He does love them just as much if not more than what he does me. He does not like or dislike their sin any more or less than all of mine. Why not love him and repent from the sin as he asked? Love is almost always doing what we do not like to do or not do by excercising our free will and choice.
If someone does love Christ as Lord and Savior they will not continue in the sin freely and willfully. Do not be deceived. All sin comes from a free will with a choice. No one was predestined to be a thief, rapist, child molestor, drug addict, homosexual, etc.,etc., etc. Yes I did mention homosexual. It may indeed be just as hard of a habit to break for them as any of the above mentioned but it does come from a free will with a choice.
A choice we will all be responsible for.
Bush inherited a BUDGET surplus of over $500 billion from the Clinton era... It would take atleast three president to completely irradicate the entire NATIONAL debt.
Since Bush's reign, the BUDGET deficit has been in a whole every year after 2001, the NATIONAL debt has expanded to an astronomical amount. Currently approaching $10 trillion. I am no economist, but my common sense can prevail where money talk does not.
No one was predestined to be a thief, rapist, child molestor, drug addict, homosexual, etc.,etc., etc. Yes I did mention homosexual. It may indeed be just as hard of a habit to break for them as any of the above mentioned but it does come from a free will with a choice.
A choice we will all be responsible for.
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 9:51 PM
and HOMOSEXUAL is the only one of those "SINS" you speak of, that involves LOVE. How ironic?
I see you mentioned nothing about Regaen's... OR Nixon's... do I need to continue?
-- Posted by darrick_04 on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 9:45 PM
How would you know? You don't remember either one. My own situation flourished greatly under Reagan. Without his leadership this country was quickly going down the tubes in 1980.
I was in high school during Nixon, so I wasn't really aware of some things. However, he certainly wasn't the kind of president we needed, and obviously made many mistakes. But I will at least admit there are problems on both sides. Some people only see things one way.
You still haven't scolded the granny for the obvious errors. Come on, and at least be consistent with your admonitions. Don't play favorites.
PARKERBROTHERS:
It's no wonder all of those homes remain empty in your lovely "Utopia Station"....
Don't you think God would have blessed you with more than TWO of the homes being sold? (one of those in which you live)
-- Posted by nascarfanatic on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 9:41 PM
nascarfanatic,
He will bless me as he sees fit. Not as I see fit. He always has.
The blessing of his Holy Spirit is the blessing worth all.
I believe I just did... Or were you typing so slow, you didn't read it fast enough?
Didn't see granny's name anywhere.
He will bless me as he sees fit. Not as I see fit. He always has.
The blessing of his Holy Spirit is the blessing worth all.
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 9:57 PM
You have acquired your temporary wealth through highly unethical means. I don't think God is blessing you. After all the corrupt leaders of Enron, Arthur Anderson and WorldCom thought God blessed them as well... I think Bush said sord of the same thing but you see what he's done in his name.
Darrick, Jesuslovesevery1, and Nascarfanatic,
Thank you! Perhaps we can bring some sense BACK into this conversation...
And Parkerbrothers, do some research OUTSIDE of a Christian resource. Homosexuality is not a phase, habit, etc. When will you understand that?
Didn't see granny's name anywhere.
-- Posted by cfder on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 9:58 PM
I expounded upon Grannyapples thoughts. Since I pretty much know her, I know exactly what she meant. You did too, you just can't get over it. But the important part is, you can't afford half the things as easily now as you could 10 years ago. Gas prices anyone? Milk? Eggs? Electricity? Propane? all other Grocery items? Insurance? House payments? Property taxes?
So long as WAGES rise with the inflation these things aren't so detramental, however wages have remained unchanged until recently, and inflation has been at the highest level in 17 years. Why don't we discuss this on another blog? I don't want to hijack Michael's love-filled depictions of Jesus.
or you can always email me darrick_04@yahoo.com for a more calm and collective debate...
and HOMOSEXUAL is the only one of those "SINS" you speak of, that involves LOVE. How ironic?
-- Posted by jesuslovesevery1 on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 9:55 PM
There is a difference between lust and love. Do not be deceived.
Those men calling the angels out of Lot's house made have had a warm fuzzy feeling but it was not love. It was lust.
Love is what destroyed Sodom, much like spanking a child.
Maybe now you can see how love and wrath can be the exact same and total opposites at the same time.
parkerbrothers,
Are you saying that spanking a child will destroy them? If so, I was spanked a as child, and I turned out just fine. Please elaborate.
Cfder, if you feel such a need to punish grannyapple, then feel free to send her a message. Darrick isn't a fact checker on here, he's just incredibly intelligent, well informed, and does his research. Perhaps we would all do best if we followed his example.
There is a difference between lust and love. Do not be deceived.
Those men calling the angels out of Lot's house made have had a warm fuzzy feeling but it was not love. It was lust.
Love is what destroyed Sodom, much like spanking a child.
Maybe now you can see how love and wrath can be the exact same and total opposites at the same time.
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 10:05 PM
Last time I checked Vindicated explained to you what happened in Sodom and Gomorra...
Why does two people who have been in COMMITED, LONG-TERM relationships have to be termed "in lust"... You make absolutely no sense. A guy wanting to be loved by another guy, is no more lust than a guy trying to fall in love with a girl. You have no truth to your claims at all. Just pure hyperbola.
I'm going to play your game of REPEATING everything everyone said, only this time, its the one you didn't address b/c it sheds the TRUTH on what happened...
"THIS IS WHY SODOM WAS DESTROYED...PLEASE DO SOME RESEARCH..
Sodom and Gomorra were destroyed because in their abundance they did nothing to help the poor. How did they acquire that abundance? Most likely they acquired it in the same manner as the abundant have down through the ages. They acquired it by taking advantage of the poor and needy. They oppressed the surrounding peoples. This interpretation, provided by Ezekiel, dovetails with the reason God gives for investigating that is found in the story itself. The interpretation of homosexuality does not fit at all!
The story of the destruction of Sodom and Gomorra is an ethical story. It's theme is how we treat our neighbors, whether or not we accept them as fellow human beings, created by God, with every right to enjoy life and prosper to the same extent as we do, or merely use them for the sake of our own convenience.
Classical Jewish texts concur that God did NOT destroy Sodom and Gemorrah because their inhabitants were homosexual. Not at all. Rather, the cities were destroyed because the inhabitents were nasty, depraved, and uncompromisingly greedy. Classical Jewish writings affirm that the primary crimes of the Sodomites were, among others, terrible and repeated economic crimes, both against each other and to outsiders."
By Vindicated...
Your history on Sodom and Gomorra is so wrong...Stop bringing it up, PB.
Deception82z, great post! I understand all too well the snide looks and remarks from those older women when I was your age and younger!
When I was your age, 22 you say, I had not only a 7 yr old but a 5 yr old and 1 yr old as well! Can you imagine the looks I got?? LOL I used to get SOO MAD!!! Our oldest has a red colored birthmark on the back of her neck and I remember getting her out of the air conditioned car to look at a road side flea market when a lady remarked "just look at that! Kids having kids and not taking care of them! Why that sweet baby has a rash all up her neck from this heat!!" I was in tears and my husband sweetly led me back to our cool car we had just gotten out of not 2 mins earlier and we left. That's been over 18 yrs ago and I still remember how I felt that day!
I am still happily married to my childrens (they're all biologically both mine and my husbands) father and we just celebrated 20 yrs last year! To this day people are shocked to hear we have children who are nearly full grown but it's a blessing to be young and still hopefully have long life to enjoy being husband/wife to one another as well as parents/grandparents/and hopefully see even more generations before it's time for us to leave this earth and join our Heavenly Father above :) Keep your head up always!
phoenix,
I don't want to admonish granny. I only want Darrick to be consistent. I agree, he does his research, and as such, he probably is rightfully concerned that no one else does as much as he. Because of this, he complains to the rest of us, in no uncertain terms, to give him proof or references to back up claims. When granny made statements that were obviously her opinion about the national debt that were wrong, Darrick didn't chime in once.
I know the connection. He knew her heart. But everything anyone says on these blogs cannot always be backed up. I would hope he wouldn't flog the rest of us when it happens again.
I think I was consistent, I PROVIDED research. And since I know her, how do you know she and I didn't discuss this prior to her posting? Or how do you know I didn't speak to her afterwards?
The fact remains, when someone makes a mistake (she didn't, she only failed to mention what type of SURPLUS we had) I correct them.. This time was no different.
No, I don't know that you didn't talk with her. But I also don't know that you did talk with her. We only see what's on this blog. When you beat up people on here for different reasons, how do you know that they haven't been talking with others similarly?
DannysGal,
Thank you for some kind words. It's just irritating to me when people judge someone before getting to really know them. I have to admit, that the snide little remarks of ignorant people still make me mad, but I am learning to deal with what life gives. What people fail to remember is that sometimes you don't really have a choice about what happens in life. You can only take what is given and make the best out of it. It's taken me a while to figure this out, but I think I finally got it. I am happy with my life now, and I refuse to let anyone have that kind of negative affect on me anymore. It's my life and not theirs. I decided that I won't let my hate or rage control me. I have been happier since then. The biggest thing I've learned in the last few years is that when you can laugh at yourself and let all the little things go by, everyone else's opinions of you don't matter or have any credential.
No, I don't know that you didn't talk with her. But I also don't know that you did talk with her. We only see what's on this blog. When you beat up people on here for different reasons, how do you know that they haven't been talking with others similarly?
-- Posted by cfder on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 10:27 PM
I PROVIDED THE RESEARCH THAT SHE FAILED TO PROVIDE.. I ALWAYS DO.. RIGHT?
Whew...this blog gives me a headache. By the time I got to the bottom of the comments I forgot what we were even talking about.
:>)
Nite Nite every1
PB be sure and say your prayers tonight and count your blessings :>)
Yeah.. I forget too.. BTW, Diana, how is your mom? I need an update if you wish to provide one... or email me, I posted it here. We can talk outside of here.
Look. Facts were provided that backed up someone's point or invalidated another. Doing your own research is important, but on some of these issues, I have to ask someone just where to look for a certain something I want to say/put out there. And don't chastise Darrick - or ANYONE, for that matter - because he wasn't up someone's ass about not having the proper source for a statement that was already correct.
Thanks Phoenix...
You do, and I'm very impressed. I only wanted you to be sure to not chide some when you don't publicly chide everyone else that are guilty of the same. That's all...
K, thanks.
parkerbrothers,
Are you saying that spanking a child will destroy them? If so, I was spanked a as child, and I turned out just fine. Please elaborate.
-- Posted by Deception82z on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 10:07 PM
No, I was saying you will disipline a child if you love it. To just turn your back and ignore the child when he has done wrong and let anything go would not be love.
Just as God would not just turn his back and ignore the sin of Sodom.
Move BEYOND the Old Testament... We can speak of sins that it elluded to all day long. But you know JESUS, that man you claim to know and love did not come to spread wrath and anger, hate and judging on his fellow man.
Parker there is a reason you are resented, because YOU harp on the same meaningless depictions of God's wrath, misconstrue the TRUE events of "Sodom". Remember a MAN decided to call those things "sodomy".. not God. So you should take a deep look into where your faith really lies.
Your history on Sodom and Gomorra is so wrong...Stop bringing it up, PB.
-- Posted by phoenix_rising on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 10:12 PM
phoenix_rising,
Sorry Sodom and Gomorra bothers you.
Reality has a way of rubbing the deceived.
Were you one of the ones calling the angels out of Lots' house?
Is that where you learned all the Greek, Latin, etc., etc. you made sure we knew you studied?
And weren't you going to bed at 7ish? I'm still waiting on that dream to come true...
Parkerbrothers,
Have you lost so much of your stated maturity that you must resort to name calling?
"You friutcakes can babble all night long with the nuts you were put togther with by no choice of your own as you say. I can hear you all now, "That's just the way we were baked", "That's just the way we were baked", "We had no choice", "They just mixed us all up and put us in here together"".
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 7:13 PM
Ever think you were one of those nuts? Because out of all the people who post on here, YOU, sir, are the biggest nut of all. Why, let's just name you 'Brazil nut' (that's the largest one I could think of off the top of my head).
And then resorting to calling us "you nasty devils"? My God, you must be 8 at the most. Your maturity level certainly raises you no higher than that.
AGAIN, Parkerbrothers, I personally challenge you: If you can find a passage in scripture where God or Jesus directly say "Being gay is bad" (or a smiliar phrase), I will remove myself from the blog.
Parkerbrothers, being unhospitable to others and not taking care of the poor is what God destroyed them for....
Have you turned over the salt shaker lately? Be careful, don't look back.
Yes darling, I was one of those people. I spoke Latin to them, which had not even been formed partly yet. And of course, THAT is the voice of angels. Not Hebrew, or Tongues, or anything like that. No, LATIN is the language of God.
The only person being deceived by reality is you.
Really, I don't give a damn what you think of me anymore. You can call me knows, insinuate I'm gay, that I lust for women, that I commit sodomy, and whatever else your mind can come up with. The thing is, you're wrong. About really everything. I only mentioned I knew Latin and Greek when discussing the books of the Bible in ANOTHER blog - where I stated we should learn about them in their native languages.
Is there any computer function you know besides copy and paste?
BTW...Parkerbrothers, still waiting on that evidence. Since you have so much time to pick apart all these other blogs and tiny bits and pieces of what people say, surely you can spare a few minutes to find where, in the Bible, Jesus said gays were bad.
Richard,
I apologize, my figures on the death tolls were averages from the 80s, but still we arent losing a whole lot more than average of peacetime from the figures youve shown. I do wish we didnt lose any though. I do admit I am wrong, thank you for calling me on it.
Jesuslovesevery1,
The reason I am complaining is because I am tired of immorality being shoved down our throats. It breaks my heart to see the shape our society is in. From listening to you and others, we shouldnt condemn any behaviour. Everyone should just do what they want and everyone else should accept it. Im sorry, I cant agree with that. There is behaviour that should be frowned upon. If a man wants to have sex with his farm animals, hes not hurting anyone, then why stop him. If a 50yr old man wants to have sex with a 13yr old girl and shes consenting, then why should we stop them. If brother and sister want to get married, well their not hurting anyone either. You see if we keep on then there will be no morality left, we will be a depraved and sick society with no limits on behaviour. (actually we are already there I think)
nascarfanatic,
Why do you even mention Old Testament, Bible, New Testament, etc.,... when you have a regard for them as you have commented before.
I personally can not see how some of you on here can even mention any of those words with the respect you have had for them.
You all can tell us what you do not believe in, but you fall short when it comes to telling someone what you really believe in and where you obtained the information to establish your beliefs without having discredited your source earlier.
Let us all tell what we believe and from what we establish our beliefs.
Lets' stop overrunning questions of belief with disclosure of what we do not believe in.
If any of you would honestly go back and read these blogs you would see two distinct types on here.
One will tell you what they believe and are not ashamed to tell you where they establish their faith and beliefs and will stick to it.
The other will constantly tell you only what they do not believe and will avoid telling you anything they believe and can not provide you with a source they can use that has not been previously been discredited by themselves.
Some of you seem to have nothing to believe in and everything to not believe in.
nascarfanatic, why don't you start and simply tell me what you believe and have faith in and what source you use to establish your faith?
It is a simple question that seems to confound you. A simple answer will suffice.
I will read it in the morning if you have one.
Remember, just a simple answer will suffice. Do not tell me what you do not believe in. Only what you believe.
You see if we keep on then there will be no morality left, we will be a depraved and sick society with no limits on behaviour. (actually we are already there I think)
-- Posted by greasemonkey on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 11:23 PM
I also think we may be there and a lot of people on here seem to like that society. It is disgusting.
Good evening fellow lovers of the Most High. And are we being kind and considerate of everyone's feelings this fine evening. WWJD. Remember that old adage? DO you really believe Jesus would talk to his fellow beings in the manner that you are talking to each other. Darrick, I wish to thank you for "researching" my errors. I didn't realize that I would need websites to back up what I thought all was aware of. You know, the deficit, the war, the economy and other things that go bump in the night. I thought these people read the paper! Well, Just thought I'd thank you for explaining the obvious. Oh, and tell the one who doesn't know that when Bush passed many of his bills, he had a republican congress and senate and everything went thru like butter, but in the last elections, we got rid of those who were ruining America and maybe just maybe we will get a decent president who cares about the little guy not corporate America. You know, Bush professes to be a christian and yet, we have poor people dying for lack of health care, food and shelter. We have people who have worked hard all their lives and losing their homes because of bad mortgage practices. BTW: read the damn paper if you need the research on this, it is all there> and if you can't read, listen to the news, pick any station, this is BIG news, people. And if any homosexual person is reading these blogs, I apologize for anything that these pathetic people say that may offend you. They speak from a human point of view, not necessarily the God I love and worship. May God Bless and Keep all of you in his care.
And then resorting to calling us "you nasty devils"? My God, you must be 8 at the most. Your maturity level certainly raises you no higher than that.
Posted by phoenix_rising on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 10:51 PM
Go back and re read the post. I never called anyone in particular a nasty devil. You just seem to think someone was talking to you. Or maybe the shoe just fit and you thought you were Cinderella and lay claim to it. It never ceases to amaze me how I can simply mention a word and someone answers to it. Did I associate your name with "fruitcake" or "nasty devils". I think when you reread the post you will now see it was only yourself who thinks they are one or both of the two.
As far as the age of 8, let's try 4. Let a child of 4 see even two animals engaged in homosexual acts and the first words out of their mouths will be "That's nasty". A simple childs mind can discern evil and nasty from good and clean. It is only when we get old and all knowing do we loose sight of simple knowns.
Yeah, the government suddenly quit spending money and bunny rabbits started singing disney songs when we got a democrat controlled congress, at least thats what I think the papers and media said. (and the media is always right, good source of truth) I think I did see a show on the discovery channel where Bush may have a little boogeyman blood in him, they are still waiting on Dna tests to get back. I will repeat myself again. There is not one single person responsible for the shape this country is in, it is a collection of a ridiculously bloated government. I think Bush is quiet possibly the worst pres ever with the exception of a few (most notably carter) If any homosexual person is reading I do not apologize ,and do not wish for others to apologize on my behalf, for anything I may have said. oh yeah and there is no such thing as a pres that cares about the little guy, most of all in this election.
Grannyapple, you are a breath of fresh air to this blog.
There seems to be a pattern here:
1. Michael starts a blog that is somewhat outrageous, then opens the doors for us to begin talking about whatever we want.
2. Everyone on here takes one of two sides: the conservative or the liberal (And I don't mean these in political views. I state "conservative" as being very strict to the Bible and NOT leaving it open to interpretation; I state "liberal" to mean people who are willing to discuss the different aspects of faith, not just what is written in black and white [and red, in some Bibles]).
3. The liberals seem to do want to discuss the article, idea, etc. I know that I fall into this category, and I joined this blogs because I want to know what other Christians think. Of COURSE we won't all believe the same things. That's because we're all different and think differently. What a blessing from God that is.
4. In expanding liberal ideas and trying to examine/grasp/constructively criticize the argument, the conservatives jump in and attack the liberals personally. That is a fallacy of debate, and shows how few people here know how to debate. You don't call a person "a nasty devil" or "a fruitcake" or "needing Ben-gay" because of their beliefs. It shows how weak the individual argument is.
5. Eventually, the argument runs around and around in circles until we are doing little but name calling, and the liberals still try to protect and express their ideas, while the conservatives seem to be shoving them down our throats.
6. At this point, Michael usually starts another blog, and the cycle continues.
If we could ALL step back for a few minutes and remember what all of these blogs are about - this is about transgendered people. LaBarbera, who is a Christian, brings forth a Christian point of view. Do we all have to believe it? NO. It's called free will and free thinking.
People, look at the world around you. How would you feel as a parent to have a baby born asexually and you have to make the choice for that baby to be a boy or girl, only to find out 10 years down the road that the gender you chose is not compatible with their hormones. I can't imagine more of a personal Hell: being forced to live in a body that I knew was wrong. Please, understand, I am a Christian and pray to God I never have to make that choice for a child. But God created those asexual people just as he created us in his image and likeness. You could equate this (somewhat) to changing the haircolor God gave you. I'm a redhead, but have gone blonde for many years. Does that mean that I am going against God's will? Do we really want to force gender roles back upon people, making women wear skirts and leave the workplace? It does not bother me on bit if a transgendered individual worked with me. I know the issue about using the same bathroom has been brought up. If you're that worried, put toilet paper down on the seat. But remember, there are bathroom stalls so that we can go in there and handle some personal issues as well. I know I wouldn't want everyone seeing me go to the bathroom if I had to fix a "wardrobe malfunction". Was it that long ago that we had this same segregation with blacks? Are we reverting back into a society where Jim Crow will apply to gay people now? What next? Attacking people who live together but aren't married? I fear for the society that becomes so closed minded that no one can be accepted.
Parkerbrothers, the reason I made comment about the "nasty little devils" was because I saw it as offense. It is not because the shoe fit, or I saw reason in it because that's more, or however else you wish to justify it. I am merely calling you on something that probably should not be said. You are calling those you disagree with you devils - look at the posts before and after you comment - when you should at least try to examine their argument.
And when I mentioned the age of 8, I was referring to your maturity level. I know when I was 4, or even 8, if I saw heterosexual animals engaged in sex I would have said "Mommy, what are they doing? That looks gross". When I read "Jurassic Park", I learned of the mating rituals of crocodiles. It was NOT the best thing to read when you don't really understand sex. I thought it was gross, and was 11 or 12. Don't put an age limit as to what a child can or cannot understand. And please, stop taking remarks out of context, and I will try to do the same - as we all should. It will be a better discussion for us all. Please don't think I consider myself high and mighty for these remarks. I am just an observer.
I'm not trying to jump down on anyone but it seems a bit odd to condemn someone for homophobia then taunt them for being a closeted gay as if homosexuality were a terrible thing.
Yes,I realize that may have been a reference to deceit,self-hatred,etc. but how would it have sounded for civil rights advocates to address blacks who were "passing" with words like "nigger","jungle bunny", references to chitterlings and watermelon,etc.)?
It just sounds a bit weird.
I agree that while we may have tendencies toward certain behaviors based on our genetics and environment,we have been given free will and the option of grace to determine how we direct our lives.
Alas,I don't think our amount of self-determination is complete.
My humanity may have stuck me with being a sinner (albeit forgiven) but if I'd had my druthers about which sins I got forgiven for,I'd have picked a classier,more socially acceptable set than the ones I've got.
I admit that these blogs have gotten out of hand. If I have offended anyone with my views, or especially my words, I sincerely apologize. It seems we all can get caught up in ideas and take them the wrong way, and in turn, respond badly. I know I have. I do apologize to anyone I have offended, and hope we can turn these blogs into more positive idea-sharing forums instead of name-calling and one-upping each other.
phoenix_rising,
I think your actions late last night and this morning show you have already helped turn this blog into a more positive idea-sharing forum.
I will try to do my part also on biting down on that slippery thing in my mouth.
I will not change my beliefs but maybe the grit of the sandpaper a little.
Well, as for the homosexuality part of this topic. A teacher once told me when someone has multiple explanations for something that just doesnt seem right, use Occam's Razor as a guide.
Smart teacher.
I'd add a paraphrase of Einstein's corollary:
"A theory should be made as simple as possible-and no simpler."
For those who like things a touch more complicated,try Crabtree's Bludgeon:
"No set of mutually inconsistent observations can exist for which some human intellect cannot conceive a coherent explanation, however complicated."
I rather like Uthman's Razor as well.
"Of two equally plausible explanations, the more cynical one is correct."
We might do best if we applied Friar William's sword and not just his razor.
1. Entities are not to be multiplied beyond necessity.
2. Entities are not to be eliminated beyond necessity.
3. Properties of entities are not to be multiplied beyond necessity.
4. Properties of entities are not to be eliminated beyond necessity.
Quantumcat's Depilatory:
Truth has no obligation to conform to our wishes or conventional wisdom.
Simplified- "If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, its gotta be a duck." right?
This is true.
But I'd still advise against shooting it if it's wearing UT colors and listen if anyone reports seeing a platypus with a kazoo. ;)
Oh, and I'm still waiting for that evidence.
ƒÞ Posted by phoenix_rising on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 9:51 PM
And PB, You have YET to respond to Vindicated's eloquent words which completely tell the truth about Sodom and Gomorra. Night.
ƒÞ Posted by nascarfanatic on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 10:46 PM
Had nothing to do with what you call Sodomy... And you claim to know the Bible... Try again.
ƒÞ Posted by darrick_04 on Thu, Mar 27, 2008, at 11:32 PM
THIS IS WHY SODOM WAS DESTROYED...PLEASE DO SOME RESEARCH..
Classical Jewish writings affirm that the primary crimes of the Sodomites were, among others, terrible and repeated economic crimes, both against each other and to outsiders.
-- Posted by Vindicated on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 5:12 PM
Parkerbrothers, YOU STILL haven't shown me where JESUS denounced it.
ƒÞ Posted by darrick_04 on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 6:28 PM
You keep talking about the God of our Bibles? He seems much kinder than yours. And if you can find a passage in scripture where God or Jesus directly say "Being gay is bad" (or a smiliar phrase), I will remove myself from the blog. But, of course, if you had found such a piece of scripture already, you would have flung it in our faces through posting the same blog 8 times over.
-- Posted by phoenix_rising on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 6:43 PM
Oh, PB, any remarks about Sodom and Gommora don't count. Read your Bible and stop making assumptions as to what a word could mean and look for the real definition.
ƒÞ Posted by phoenix_rising on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 7:03 PM
Your history on Sodom and Gomorra is so wrong...Stop bringing it up, PB.
-- Posted by phoenix_rising on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 10:12 PM
AGAIN, Parkerbrothers, I personally challenge you: If you can find a passage in scripture where God or Jesus directly say "Being gay is bad" (or a smiliar phrase), I will remove myself from the blog.
-- Posted by phoenix_rising on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 10:51 PM
BTW...Parkerbrothers, still waiting on that evidence. Since you have so much time to pick apart all these other blogs and tiny bits and pieces of what people say, surely you can spare a few minutes to find where, in the Bible, Jesus said gays were bad.
-- Posted by phoenix_rising on Fri, Mar 28, 2008, at 11:11 PM
TO ADDRESS ALL THE ABOVE COLLECTIVELY:
As some of you mentioned there is nowhere Jesus directly denounces homosexuality in the Bible. I think some things do not have to be directly denounced to know they are detestable, vile, filthy, unnatural, defiling, lustful, etc., etc. to Jesus.
Some of you offered reasons for the destruction of Sodom which you obtained from classical Jewish Writings.
I can only offer you what the Bible does say about both that was given to us with the assumption everything did not have to be directly told to us to know it applies. Allowing the Holy Spirit to help discern truth will help in reading the following written by Paul and Jude of whom each gave their life defending their belief.
JUDE:
7Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.
8Likewise also these filthy dreamers defile the flesh, despise dominion, and speak evil of dignities.
PAUL:
26For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
I ask you to look at one more reference to homosexuality and think about it with an open mind.
GENISIS:
5And they called unto Lot, and said unto him, Where are the men which came in to thee this night? bring them out unto us, that we may know them.
6And Lot went out at the door unto them, and shut the door after him,
7And said, I pray you, brethren, do not so wickedly.
8Behold now, I have two daughters which have not known man; let me, I pray you, bring them out unto you, and do ye to them as is good in your eyes: only unto these men do nothing; for therefore came they under the shadow of my roof.
Lot was willing to give these men his own daughters in order to satisfy the lust of these men and have them not do what he termed wicked. How many of you have daughters you would offer in order to keep men from doing something wicked and detestable in Gods' eyes. You have to also remember the men in Lots' house were the men God had just told Abraham he was sending to find out what was happening in Sodom before he destroyed it. These two men were 2 of the 3 that had just met with Abraham. These two went on to Sodom and the third (Lord) stayed behind with Abraham for a brief period longer. Lot was a righteous man and spared by God. He had to have known God just as his uncle Abraham did. I think when you look at the evidence you have to say Lot thought homosexuality was a serious offence to this God he knew. He shows his true evaluation of it when he listens and gets his family out before Sodom is destroyed.
Not trying to offend anyone. Just telling you what my source has to say.
Not asking anyone to believe me. Just respect my opinion and source as I will yours.
Lot had sex with BOTH of his daughters.. Why don't you post that? Because quite possibly, it would discredit him as being "righteous" and it will also disprove the real reason the city was destroyed...
My problem with that is this, talk about the Old Testament all day long, but don't forget who came to change all that...
You might enjoy reading Romans 7:4-6, you know, it's right after the chapter where Paul denounces "men lying with men..."
Do you think God is still worried about the people who are doing no harm to anyone? Do you think he has time to care about which plumbing he gave Steve or Nicole and whom they fall inlove with. NO! I mean after all, if we had to choose from the list of things to protest
1. War
2. Murder
3. Poverty
4. Healthcare
5. Economy
6. Obvious global deterioration
7. Famine
8. Government corruption
9. Racism
10. Gay rights
We know which one that Jerry Falwell(would have), Westboro Baptist Church, Michael and you would be most concerned with... Be your brothers keeper, and since God has blessed you so much, it would be a better service to him for you to show that side of you... I guess it's a little harder to be content with your own happiness, but in the meantime try not ruining everyone elses.
Lastly, I have NEVER seen all this "shoving their lifestyles down our throats..." you speak of. Though I have seen you, Michael and others shoving your lifestyles down theirs.
One more thing, if you are going to speak of all things abonimable unto god, you should begin with shrimp, lobster, ham, rabbits, two seeds sown in the same field, one piecs of clothing intertwined with multiple fabrics, children backtalking their parents (stone them to death, by all means)... That's why you read the Bible with an open-mind, because it is "detestable" things such as those, that are in the same books as the 6 admonishments to "homosexuality"... Good day. I will not respond again, so just save this to your folder and when you go to repost all the things everyone ever said, remember this one too.
I have to laugh at what Parkerbrothers posts... He always searches for the negative things that biblical authors had to say... Will he ever be content/happy and post anything positive? How about just posting the ENTIRE truth...
Ezekiel 16:49-50: Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fulness of bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy. And they were haughty, and committed abomination before me: therefore I took them away as I saw good.
What reasons does this passage give about Sodom? They were proud and arrogant. They had fulness of bread, in other words they were self-indulgent. Abundance of idleness - they were lazy. They assumed NO responsibility for poor people, they had no social conscience. They were haughty - "stuck-up" with an attitude of superiority, arrogant. They committed "abomination" before God ("to'ebah," something disgusting, especially idolatry.) Abomination included such things as eating shrimp or catfish, and having sex while the wife was having her period. A disobedient child was an abomination to God and was supposed to be stoned to death! The list goes on forever
Isaiah 1:9-10: Except the LORD of hosts had left unto us a very small remnant, we should have been as Sodom, and we should have been like unto Gomorrah. Hear the word of the LORD, ye rulers of Sodom; give ear unto the law of our God, ye people of Gomorrah.
Jeremiah 23:14: I have seen also in the prophets of Jerusalem an horrible thing: they commit adultery, and walk in lies: they strengthen also the hands of evildoers, that none doth return from his wickedness; they are all of them unto me as Sodom, and the inhabitants thereof as Gomorrah.
They committed adultry, again specific sexuality immorality, and were liars and decievers. They supported and gave legitimacy to the godless ones, those who had no place in their heart for God. God says that THIS is how they remind them of Sodom and Gomorrah.
You will notice that the above passages make a strong statement about these cities, comparing them with the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah. Where was homosexuality mentioned? Where? How many times was adultry specifically mentioned?
In the cultures of the Old Testament the laws of hospitality were something not to be taken lightly. Cities were usually enclosed and strangers who wandered in were not always welcomed. The story in Judges 19 describes an incident very similar to the Sodom and Gomorrah story. The Benjamites had grown cold and hard-hearted over the years and were not open to entertain a stranger in distress. They were called the "sons of Belial," children of the devil, ungovenable, untamable.
A wandering Levite, with his wife and servant, found himself stranded in the city, having to sleep in the dangerous street all night. However, there was one old man who had not lost all of his compassion and whom invited them in. The men of the city made a rude, disrespectful assult on the house of this man and demanded to see the people inside.
Judges 19:16-22: And, behold, there came an old man from his work out of the field at even, which was also of mount Ephraim; and he sojourned in Gibeah: but the men of the place were Benjamites. And when he had lifted up his eyes, he saw a wayfaring man in the street of the city: and the old man said, Whither goest thou? and whence comest thou? And he said unto him, We are passing from Bethlehemjudah toward the side of mount Ephraim; from thence am I: and I went to Bethlehemjudah, but I am now going to the house of the LORD; and there is no man that receiveth me to house. Yet there is both straw and provender for our asses; and there is bread and wine also for me, and for thy handmaid, and for the young man which is with thy servants: there is no want of any thing. And the old man said, Peace be with thee; howsoever let all thy wants lie upon me; only lodge not in the street. So he brought him into his house, and gave provender unto the asses: and they washed their feet, and did eat and drink. Now as they were making their hearts merry, behold, the men of the city, certain sons of Belial, beset the house round about, and beat at the door, and spake to the master of the house, the old man, saying, Bring forth the man that came into thine house, that we may know him.
The old man offered his virgin daughter and his wife to the mob.
Judges 19:23-24: And the man, the master of the house, went out unto them, and said unto them, Nay, my brethren, nay, I pray you, do not so wickedly; seeing that this man is come into mine house, do not this folly. Judges 19:24 Behold, here is my daughter a maiden, and his concubine; them I will bring out now, and humble ye them, and do with them what seemeth good unto you: but unto this man do not so vile a thing.
They took his wife and they "knew" her. The Hebrew word is "yadah," to acknowledge, to become aquainted with, to comprehend, to learn, to know. "Yadah" appears by itself no less than 943 times in a nonsexual connotation. The word is used ten places in the old testament to denote heterosexual intercourse. It is used five times inconjunction with "mishkabh" to mean the same thing. I repeat, "Yadah" appears by itself no less than 943 times in a nonsexual connotation.
Judges 19:25-28: But the men would not hearken to him: so the man took his concubine, and brought her forth unto them; and they knew her, and abused her all the night until the morning: and when the day began to spring, they let her go. Then came the woman in the dawning of the day, and fell down at the door of the man's house where her lord was, till it was light. And her lord rose up in the morning, and opened the doors of the house, and went out to go his way: and, behold, the woman his concubine was fallen down at the door of the house, and her hands were upon the threshold. And he said unto her, Up, and let us be going. But none answered. Then the man took her up upon an ass, and the man rose up, and gat him unto his place.
The men assulted her, violently raped her (heterosexual rape) and left her for dead. Are we to conclude from this passage that heterosexual sex is a sin, an abomination to God? What a ludicrous thought. Of course not!
The issue isn't sex...the issue is violence with the phallus as the weapon of choice.
With these things in mind, let's look at Genesis 19. God sent two messengers to visit Lot, who welcomed them at the gate of the city. They went to Lot's house where they were treated as guests. Then the word got out that unwanted strangers were in town.
So, what do you think? Were Sodom and Gomorrah destroyed because of homosexuality? You have read the Bible's own interpretation of the story. To simply say that the cities were destroyed because of homosexuality or because of sexual immorality is showing blatant ignorance ot the passage.
In a nutshell, Sodom and Gomorrah were destroyed because the people had become terribly evil and had totally turned away from God. They had forsaken Him completely. These long passages tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
Lot had sex with BOTH of his daughters.. Why don't you post that? Because quite possibly, it would discredit him as being "righteous" and it will also disprove the real reason the city was destroyed...
-- Posted by nascarfanatic on Sun, Mar 30, 2008, at 3:41 PM
The reason I did not post it was because it was not an answer to any of the questions I was asked.
I am sorry you are offended by my answer. It seems like if I answer your questions I am condemned. If I don't answer your questions I am condemned.
Perhaps it would work out better if you did not ask me a question if you do not want an answer.
Also I did not elaborate on Lots' daughters sleeping with him because it made the homosexuality look even worse than I thought everyone might be able to bear.
The shear thought of him loving his God enough to prevent the detestable acts of homosexuality from occuring by offering his daughters painted a big enough picture of the degree that the detestable, vile, filthy, unnatural, defiling, and lustful act of homosexuality was considered to God.
Your mentioning of Lots' daughters sleeping with him makes me ask myself the question..."If God allowed that and considered Lot and his daughters righteous and the only one worth saving in Sodom what kind of wrath did he actually have planned for Sodom?
In reference to your comments:
"My problem with that is this, talk about the Old Testament all day long, but don't forget who came to change all that..."
"You might enjoy reading Romans 7:4-6, you know, it's right after the chapter where Paul denounces "men lying with men..."
Nascarfanatic, you are a hard man to understand and respect. I would really like to respect you and what you say but you make it hard. In the two comments above you made you make reference to Jesus and Romans of which Paul authored. How do you expect me to respect your thinking when just recently you make comments like the two below:
"Because the same people that tells kids Jesus is real, tells them that Santa Claus is real. hMM..... It's no wonder!"
"Hey darrick, I know you don't want to do greasmonkey's research, but I will go ahead and post what I know about Paul the Fraud..."
That just does not add up nascarfanatic. Why do you even bring up Jesus or tell me to read Romans when you think its author is a fraud.
I just do not understand what has a hold of you.
I am not poking any fun at you at all on such a serious matter. I am just simply concerned whether you choose to believe I am or not.
jesuslovesevery1,
Sorry for the delay in responding to you. I appreciate seeing you use your Bible to help find correct answers. I do not remember you making ridicule of the Bible so I am assuming for the time being that you respect it as God's inspired word.
I have read Ezekial many times and cherish it. I have read the versus you posted themselves even more times.
49Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fulness of bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.
50And they were haughty, and committed abomination before me: therefore I took them away as I saw good.
When I read the two verses, I see verse 49 giving the characteristics and personality enlightments of the people of Sodom.
When I read verse 50 I see a description of what they did and what God therefore did as a counter to their actions which were an abomination to him.
There is a reason for the splitting of verse 49 from 50. They were two different things.
The things of verse 49 are passive and considered iniquities.
The things of verse 50 are active and considered abominations.
It was the abominations that caused the taking away.
Also you have to see that Jude was refering to the same thing in his letter. Although he did not mention some of the iniquities of the people of Sodom he does tell what brought the vengeance of eternal fire on them.
7Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.
That is the way the Holy Spirits' has allowed me to understand these passages. I do not demand you to believe it but simply ask you to consider it sometimes when you read it again.
Also I have posted below some other views that shed some light on what Sodom was known for. One is from Websters' dictionary and the other is from Wikpedia. I may have the order of them mixed up but I do not think it will matter.
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Main Entry:
sod*omy
Pronunciation:
\ˈsä-də-mç\
Function:
noun
Etymology:
Middle English, from Anglo-French sodomie, from Late Latin Sodoma Sodom; from the homosexual proclivities of the men of the city in Genesis 19:1--11
Date:
13th century
: anal or oral copulation with a member of the same or opposite sex; also : copulation with an animal
-- sod*om*it*ic \ˌsä-də-ˈmi-tik\ or sod*om*it*i*cal \-ti-kəl\ adjective
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Sodom is subsequently destroyed by a rain of sulfur and fire. From this biblical narrative the word 'Sodomy' is derived and has henceforth come to be synonymous with anal intercourse (particularly between two males) and sometimes also to describe human-animal sexual intercourse (also known as bestiality or zoophilia);[3] this is the primary meaning of the cognate German language word Sodomie.
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And lastly I thought I would include some history of it from a source that should be supportive if anything toward homosexuals. It is found at www.gayhistory.com. It is written by a gay or homosexual man. Here it is:
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words: Sodomy
Coined around 1050, "sodomy" is still used in some American states to refer to the crime of sex between two men, and sometimes to particular sex acts between men and women. Historically, its exact meaning has varied across time and place. Usually, it has referred to sex between men - especially anal intercourse - but in some countries at varying times it has also been applied to anal intercourse between men and women, sex between women, and even bestiality.
When St. Peter Damian coined the term in the 11th Century, he was naming a sin that had earlier been referred to only vaguely as the "sin of Sodom". Peter included masturbation as one form of sodomy - albeit the least serious - but this usage did not stick (see Onanism).
The term is derived from the prototypical fire and brimstone story of the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah in Genesis Chapters 18 and 19. It begins with a conversation between the Lord and Abraham. The Lord knew that Sodom & Gomorrah were peopled by wicked men, and he told Abraham that he was about to destroy them. Abraham pleaded on their behalf, and after arduous negotiations, the Lord agreed to spare the cities if just ten good men lived there.
To find out, the Lord sent two angels to spy on Sodom. They were greeted by Lot, Sodom's last good man. He invited them in and fed them, but before they could retire, the men of Sodom surrounded Lot's house and demanded that his guests come out that they might "know" them. The angels, aware that "know" meant sex, "smote the men that were at the door of the house with blindness" but the men kept trying to get in.
The angels told Lot to flee because they would destroy the city. After a brief protest, Lot gathered his family and escaped. The next morning, Abraham rose early, and from a high vantage point, he saw the entire plain where Sodom and Gomorrah sat ablaze; "the smoke of the country went up as the smoke of the furnace".
Contemporary theologians interpret the biblical text in a variety of ways - maybe it was just part of the origin myth of the Hebrews - but St. Peter interpreted the text literally. It was sodomy, sexual desire between men, that destroyed the "cities of the plain".
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All the above definion and explanation is from the gayhistory website.
I have not offered any of the above information as a means of expressing any hate toward homosexuals. The only thing that is hated is the sin of it itself. Not them.
Again.."One more thing, if you are going to speak of all things abonimable unto god, you should begin with shrimp, lobster, ham, rabbits, two seeds sown in the same field, one piecs of clothing intertwined with multiple fabrics, children backtalking their parents (stone them to death, by all means)..."
Gotta love how you divert the attention all back to one issue, about some things I mentioned concerning the Bible... Forget about that, and answer the questions, don't dance around them like you have become a pro at.
Since all of this and Sodom and Gamorrah are in the same testament.. Can you tell me why you no longer think the rest of those things are "abominations"...?
nascarfanatic,
The attention was on one issue because that was the issue at hand.
You do however bring up another good question of which I can only partially answer by saying that these things you mentioned did not come forth into the new testament as issues as did the sexual perversions.
I can only offer a few sciptures that touch on it at this time. These come from the New Testament that you have previously dicredited over half of as being written by "Paul the Fraud" and half of the remaining half being written by traveling companions of his. I wish you thought more of and respected these mens' lives they gave. It would make me feel that my time is not wasted posting these scriptures but I will anyway.
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15There is nothing from without a man, that entering into him can defile him: but the things which come out of him, those are they that defile the man.
16If any man have ears to hear, let him hear.
17And when he was entered into the house from the people, his disciples asked him concerning the parable.
18And he saith unto them, Are ye so without understanding also? Do ye not perceive, that whatsoever thing from without entereth into the man, it cannot defile him;
19Because it entereth not into his heart, but into the belly, and goeth out into the draught, purging all meats?
20And he said, That which cometh out of the man, that defileth the man.
21For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders,
22Thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lasciviousness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness:
23All these evil things come from within, and defile the man.
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8But meat commendeth us not to God: for neither, if we eat, are we the better; neither, if we eat not, are we the worse.
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I hope that at least partially answered your question. It was a good one that I feel more time could and should be spent on. Why do you think they did not come forward as issues in the New Testament?
HUH?
HUH?
-- Posted by jesuslovesevery1 on Mon, Mar 31, 2008, at 12:31 PM
You seemed confused by something. I take the blame for it if you are since I am not the best at explaining things sometimes. What are you confused about?
HUH?
HUH?
-- Posted by jesuslovesevery1 on Mon, Mar 31, 2008, at 6:35 PM
Sorry, but I can not help you if you do not know what you are confused about?
michaelbell,
Now that some of the commotion has settled down on here I would like to comment on this blog about what you started it on.
I think your comment about we are on sinking sand and slowly slipping below the point of rescue should indeed be taken seriously.
The part that we all seem to forget is that it happens slowly. Christians are almost always working people and just seem to let little things slide until they run their coarse and they are manifested among us before we know it.
The barn door does not open fully all at once and all the herd come out of it at the same time. Only so many can fit through it at one time. If it did we never would have stood for some of the things we have and allowed those things to become open among us and appear to be accepted as okay now.
We really have no one to blame but ourselves since we are the ones that sit back and let it creep in slowly among us.
Prayer did not leave the schools in an instant.
Abortion did not become an in thing in a twikling of an eye.
The closet door of homosexuality did not sling open all at once and knock us out to where we were rendered useless in standing against it.
This overly passive nature of ours is what has given us these things to deal with on a larger scale now that we have allowed them the opportunity for their tap root to run deep into the ground.
I know this may sound repugnant and gross but I am not going to be suprised if we have people wanting the rights to be treated equally and marry their animal of choice within my lifetime. I remember a time already in my lifetime that if you would have ever mentioned men wanting the right to marry other men I would have thought that harder to imagine then men wanting to marry animals now. Actually I could respect a man more for asking the farmer for his female Holstein milk cows' hand (or perhaps to be more politically correct, hoof) in marriage than I can asking him for his sons' hand in marriage.
What all have we allowed to creep in?
"Actually I could respect a man more for asking the farmer for his female Holstein milk cows' hand (or perhaps to be more politically correct, hoof) in marriage than I can asking him for his sons' hand in marriage."
This shows your true ignorance... actually by now, it's stupidity since you have continually used the same verbage over and over again...
Parkerbrothers, the reason you nobody takes you seriously, is because your argument is pure and total xenophobia.. when you talk about allowing same-sex couples to get married (you know to HUMANS, who can SIGN A CONTRACT), then irresponsibly say people may want to get married to an animal of choice... (ANIMALS, can't sign contracts, can't agree to terms and conditions, etc etc)
Overly passive nature of ours? Hmm... I have no idea what country you live in but gay rights are hardly recognized here, abortions are last resorts, and something you never have to personally decide..
By the way, prayer left our school the same decade "In God We Trust" was put on our money... Exactly what's the difference between that money and the money prior to it? It isn't a schools job to teach religion, that is why we have churches. Churches don't teach math, science, english, or many other things. They each have respective places, and neither should be intertwined.
jesuslovesevery1,
We have to respect everyone's rights even if they are not the next group to start demanding theirs.
Should not we respect the Buddist rights also? Or do they have to wait in line for a specified period of time before they can holler their rights are being violated or not acknowledged here in this country?
They may want to marry one of the female cows that they think got rebirthed. They might think it was the cute little girl down the road that has been rebirthed.
I know a lot of it sounds far fetched but so did homosexuals marrying not that long ago.
I do not think either one is right but I could stomach a man marrying a female sheep a lot easier than two men marrying one another.
We all see things differently but that is actually how I feel. Sorry.
Maybe folks will start recognizing critters have thoughts and feelings,too.
A beast with free will over its life could be society's next advance and the one with the sentience to understand the significance of marriage vows could be the next big scientific breakthrough.
(That might even lead to gengineered humans who could make a lifelong committment to one another.)
If God could get desperate enough for a chosen people that He was ready to make Sons of Abraham out of rocks,he could get so hard up for beings who could take on the responsibility of a family that He wouldn't care what the participants were so long as they looked to Him as head of the household and followed His example as Protector,Provider and Lawgiver.
Before we slam people who want to make something holy out from a physical attraction to children,animals or the same sex,let's look at the people who trivialized the "normal" bonds so that support became no more than cash from an ATM and the person who met one's sexual needs became no more significant than a fetish toy powered by D batteries.
The lack of cherishing and responsibility in the "right" places hurt us more than people seeking love from new sources.
Is one form of selfishness that much worse than another?
He who disregards and disrespects one class of beings will damage them all.
He who cares will look after the welfare of the weakest even as he would God Himself.
It is our lack of a strong bond with God that leads to our fear and callousness.
It is because we do not think with His mind and feel with His heart that we let sin infiltrate our lives and create an "us vs. them" mentality.
If we saw one another through the eyes of our Creator,we wouldn't have to be asked about our rights or those of the person next to us.
We would think of the privilege of being God's proxies and we wouldn't need to be reminded of these words:
"First,they came for the Communists,the Social Democrats and the trade unionists but I did not speak out because I was not one of them.
Then,they came for the incurably sick,the gypsy and the antisocials and I did not speak out because I was not one of them.
Then,they came for the Jew and the Catholic and as I was Protestant,I remained silent.
Then they came for me-and,by that time,there was no one left to speak up for me."
We do not need to be looking for "escape clauses" for whom we owe our love.
We honor the rights of all beings because as we do unto the least of these,even so do we do to He who provides our rights and the responsibilities that go with them.
quantumcat,
You are always over this country pumpkins head!(smile) I do not know exactly what you said but I guess it must have been good. Sounded good anyway.
Even though I can not always latch on exactly to what you are getting at I can still plainly tell you what I mean.
I respect everyone and their opinion and basic rights which are just as deserving as I am. I will not however except the idea of a man marrying another man. I will never believe a Christian would willingly and openly accept this behavior on any grounds instead of trying to steer (not intended as sarcasm) them away from it.
Even though it might be found that some people have genes that are more prone to stimulate certain behaviors in them than another human may have it will never change the fact that there is a choice to make. Whether it be genes that influence a thief to steal, a rapist to stalk, a junkie to shoot up, or even a homosexual to prowl I will never allow myself to be deceived into believing me or anyone with those genes does not have a mind to discern with and choices to make.
I hope you do not think I hate anyone. The only thing I hate is the flagrant actions. I have come to the conclusion though that no matter how much I want to see someone give up vile and filthy passions the choice I keep claiming they have is also theirs instead of mine.
I have even met 4 men in my life that had passions of lust for farm animals. One was drawn to a sheep, one to a horse, one to a cow, and the last one was drawn to everything in the barn including a tom turkey. I found I could talk to them until I had tears in my eyes as big as horse ***** and it was useless. I could not make a choice for them that they possessed.
I only mention this in passing because I do not want anyone to think I am foolish enough to believe I can make a choice for someone else.
I have enough choices of my own to answer for without wanting someone elses.
Hey, and what do you know about those "fetish toy powered by D batteries."(smile again)
Nobody takes you seriously... Everytime you ALMOST make sense, you sound absolutely ridiculous.
You are making up stories just to sound articulate, thus actually seeming quite stupid. Some guys were falling in love with animals, you're crazy. You equate consentual love with thieves, rapists, and drug users... I ask you, who are homosexuals hurting? You act as if straight people who solicit sex, etc are immune from scrutiny... I have never witnessed any of this b/s you speak of, it's all a ficticious depiction of pure hysteria...
We get it, you're homophobic, well I'm stupidphobic, so let's call it a truce.
Even though it might be found that some people have genes that are more prone to stimulate certain behaviors in them than another human may have it will never change the fact that there is a choice to make. Whether it be genes that influence a thief to steal, a rapist to stalk, a junkie to shoot up, or even a homosexual to prowl I will never allow myself to be deceived into believing me or anyone with those genes does not have a mind to discern with and choices to make.-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Tue, Apr 1, 2008, at 9:34 PM
So in other words, those who are born with genes that make them white or black, have brown or blue eyes, red or blonde hair, must at some point use their mind to discern with and make a choice? LOL... It's exactly how absurd your method of thinking is.
I'm just glad you aren't God, though you sure do seem to pretend...
I'm still waiting on your to protest war, poverty, government lies, astronomical debt, etc etc etc. It's gotta be easier to speak out against people who don't even care what you think to begin with... You didn't ask anybody to grant you the right to marry, therefore nobody is going to ask you.
nascarfanatic,
I see no need for a truce.
Only the need for the truth.
I know it is probably hard for some to believe but I indeed knew these four men and during their life grew to appreciate them. Never condoned their vile and lustful passions but respected them as souls.
These men were quite well known by many,especially the one of passion with the sheep and the other who swore by the Tom Turkey. I worked around them, dove hunted in the field with them, even drank a beer or two with them. Highly intelligent men who saw nothing wrong with their passions and would openly discuss it as though it was accepted. They never knew what a closet door was. Matter of fact, they would leave the barn door open while they partook of the passion.
Just because you have not witnessed it as you said does not make it ficticious.
You never witnessed the resurrection of Christ. It that ficticious?
Faith is believing in what we can not see.
Whether you see to believe is not from me. If ever around the Fosterville community ask someone about the passion of the Tom Turkey.
Laughable...
A man's desire for another man, is no different than a man's lust for another woman.
When you throw animals into the equation, it's just plain pathetic and shoes how far you must go to continue your childlike reasonings... It was fun while it lasted, ttyl
jesuslovesevery1,
Having brown eyes or blue eyes, red hair or blonde hair is not a sin in God's eyes. We are not told to be not deceived. Brown eyes will not enter the kingdom of heaven.
As far as nature goes....I wake up with brown eyes. The brown eyes do not change all day because there is no choice to make.
A thief wakes up and is not stealing. By noon he is however being tempted and yes he is more genetically inclined to steal than I am but...He has a choice to make using the free will we were instilled with. He typically will have to plan what, when, where and who he will steal from. All choices that must be made for the passion to progress. His buddy however comes by and is strutting. He feels the new passion of the moment stirring him and yes he is genitically inclined to favor this passion also more than someone with other dominating genes.. He has to make a choice now to postpone his planned theft and choose how to proceed with latest interceding passion. He will probably be faced with more choices to make now. Oral or anal, protection or no protection, gerbils or no gerbils. You see, it is not only a choice, it is several choices that have to be made before the passion is allowed to pass.
I could see you way of thinking if Jack was permenantly mounted to the back of Mack. However it is a choice to mount or to dismount. Homosexuals are not Siamese twins.
The law requires us have an exit sign posted everywhere I turn, over every door. I just happen to think it should be a law also for one to be installed on Macks back. I would also vote for posting it "no entry" to help them figure it out and see there is a choice or perhaps that they made a wrong turn in the heat of the moment.
I am sorry I feel that way but I honestly think it is vile and detestable and do not want younger people thinking everybody thinks it is okay.
We have personally seen this acceptance affect our family in a way that I regret and want to see stopped. My brother has a 6 year old girl who is precious. He adores her as I do. Nothing is more precious than a child.
His admiration showed so much that everybody told her she was "Daddy's Little Girl". Over a year ago she was on an office computer and typed in the words "Daddy's Little Girl" and got to see the definition of it that someone else got to choose for her. Her little brother got to see what "Daddy's Little Boy" meant also before it was stopped.
And before you go off on a tangent about how we should not let the kids on the computer I am going to tell you that they should not be denied a respectable right because of someone else wanting to exercise a detestable right of theirs that once was and still should be considered a crime against nature.
If we adhere to your way of thinking I suspect the saying "The devil made me do it" will be replaced with "God made me this way". Imagine giving everybody the right to use that excuse. Even Eve did not try that one.
You are entitled to your thinking and I respect it. I only ask you not to condemn me for mine.
nascarfanatic,
A mans' desire for another man may not be any different than a man's lust for a woman in your eyes but it is in God's eyes if it falls outside the given parameters.
Keep in mind it is not the wrath of your eyes or mine that can or will torch the new Sodom and Gommorrah.
If the introduction of man mating with animal seems childish to you then you therefore consider your Bible childish.
It was a prevelant and known detestable and vile passion existing from the earliest of times. I am suprised you act as if it is new strange flesh I have concocted from an imagination. I hope you are joking and know better.
I would imagine that if they dig the entire Sodom site they will eventually find a man in the passion of lust with an animal among the char.
The issue is caring enough for the other parties that it doesn't matter what one wants if it hurts another person.
The people who exploit others sexually or in any other way are getting their kicks at another's expense.
Their jokes on the 'Net can wind up offending innocent children.
That's sick whatever their preferences are.
That doesn't mean that we get to forfeit our decency by dragging them behind a truck,lynching them or hanging them on barbed wire.
We get to tell anyone when we think they are making a mistake.
We have to help them through their ordeals when making a right choice is difficult.
We have the right to prevent their expressing their wants at our expense.
But we don't have the right to impose our every whim on other people any more than they have the right to control our lives.
We don't have the right to treat them as worthless,hopeless and undeserving of the love we'd owe any of God's creation.
We don't need to disrespect God enough to say "anything goes" or disrespect one another enough to say we can't overcome our worst traits.
But we can't force all our views on other people and we can't equate love or physical attraction with heartless exploitation.
It's not the same.
Some would destroy a child's body with steroids,have a dog fight to the death or sore a horse in the name of sport.
Some would use lies and oppression in the name of their love for their creed or country.
Those aren't valid,either.
We need to stop equating the corruption and the excuses for the reality.
People in a loving relationship are not a danger to us.
People who can't be bothered with love are.
We need to permit all our people to have basic rights in regard to citizenship,health care,legal protections,etc. and,in our personal lives,we need to determine what sort of hearts and minds people are using in their relationships before we get too obsessed with what their genitals might be up to.
I was reading through this blog and was caught up with the idea that we should teach the Bible and that "Judeo-Christianity should be made the national religion and be taught in schools as a selective course for those who want it" (Michael Bell, Posted Saturday, March 29, 2008, at 6:06 AM).
I don't know how many of you study law, but there is a such a thing as the Law of Inclusion. It basically means that if one religion is taught in schools (these are public schools), then ALL religions must be taught in schools. Sorry, but I would feel uncomfortable with my child sitting next to a devil worshipper. I know these exist, but I still believe in sheltering children. That's why Christmas parades, etc. are not allowed in many cities - if they include that, and it is contested by, say Wiccans - then the Wiccans have every right to also have their own public parade or celebration, too.
The site oyez.com is the official website of Supreme Court cases. In doing some research, I saw that some cases were protected by the First Amendment (Lynch v. Donnelly), while others were not (Lee v. Weisman). In Lee v. Weisman, Mr. Weisman objected to a rabbi speaking at the school's graduation (the school was a public high school). The Supreme Court stated that the Establishment Clause of the First Amendment did not allow preaching at a public high school, middle school, or grade school ceremony.
" In a 5-to-4 decision, the Court held that government involvement in this case creates "a state-sponsored and state-directed religious exercise in a public school." Such conduct conflicts with settled rules proscribing prayer for students. The school's rule creates subtle and indirect coercion (students must stand respectfully and silently), forcing students to act in ways which establish a state religion. The cornerstone principle of the Establishment Clause is that government may not compose official prayers to recite as part of a religious program carried on by government." (http://www.oyez.org/cases/1990-1999/1991/1991_90_1014/)
Even spontaneous prayers conducted by a teacher or principle are not allowed.
I understand the want for many people to make Judeo-Christianity the national religion, but it has taken America over two centuries to decide English was the national language. Also, in America, our forefathers wanted there to be a separation of Church and State because of the injustices they had endured in England and other countries. (Remember, America was founded on the idea of free religion of ALL kinds.)
I guess what I'm trying to say is that if you want your child to learn Christianity, they should be in a private Christian school where prayers are not outlawed, but encouraged.
I hope this helps anyone who wondered why we DO NOT have prayer in public schools.
Have a blessed day.
You know what I find humorous about this blog? It is that every time gay marriage is brought up it is always in reference to two men usually by a man. I've never understood why it is alwyas more acceptable for two women to be together than two men. My question is how many men on here that are so against homosexuality have never HONESTLY watched an adult sex film? I do not think there are many to be honest - whether you claim to be Christian or not.
My thought is this: almost every straight adult film has at least one scene init that involves only two women. How is this different than two men being together? Yet this is more socially acceptable by the male gender. More men are homophobic that I know that watches these films and I ask the same questions to them. They always try to justify their answers, and say it's just less digusting. (They're all Christians, by the way.) Then I ask, "if you're so against gay men, why are you staring at a naked man on the video?" They usually get defensive at this point. It's all the same in my opinion.
What really amazes me is how many people like to pick and choose from the Bible which parts they can ignore or follow. Going by the Bible, isn't sex supposed to be solely for reproductive purposes only? Yet how many people take enjoyment from the act? Is that considered a sin? And I thought I heard that missionary was the only one favorable in God's eyes. I may be wrong, but I'd be willing to bet that everyone has deferred from this at one point in time.
Also, as far as picking and chosing goes, doesn't the Bible teach not to put anything unpure into your bodies - to treat it as a temple? Most medicines are man made and alters the natural function of the human body. God wouldn't have given us pain if he didn't intend for us to feel it. Man created a formula solution to pain, not God. He wouldn't have given us feelings if he didn't intend for us to feel. Sometimes, you can't control your feelings. How many of you have ever tried to stop crying at a tramatic time in your life and couldn't? There are those times that you just can't control your feelings like you can control a headache or muscle spasm or an infection. My point is that you can't pick and choose what you want to follow from the Bible and not be somewhat of a hypocrit. The truth is that there is no way to live life without being a hypocrit at some point. Think about it.
I don't understand why it is so hard to let people live thier own lives without making it harder for them to live it. Some homosexuals would rather die - and some choose to - than to have to face society. It isn't easy. They know they will be criticized by most people. The first person I told was my husband. I know how cruel society is, and this blog doesn't help to disprove my thoughts. If you are different, it's sometimes better to keep it quiet than to try for acceptance. It'll hardly ever happen. The understanding "Christians" that always say "you can talk to me or the preacher if you have a problem" are the ones that are the most cruel. If you don't fit into their belief, than you're wrong and are going to Hell. I.E. this blog. Take for example teh one who would rather see a man marry the farmer's pig than the farmer's son. He claims to be a Christian, yet would rather support bestility than two men sign a committment paper together. It makes no sense to me.
I just wish that there were more open-minded people in this world. I'm not saying that you have to agree with everything someone does, but accept that it is their life not yours. Then, MAYBE, the suicide rate would drop because of people feeling that there's no one to talk to. "Love thy neighbor" applies to nothing anymore. It should be if "if thy neighbor is different, emotionally lynch them". It's all just devasting to see society -humans as well as Christians- acting so horrible to one another. Christian love was always taught as acceptance and forgiveness to me, but I guess I was lied to. Maybe I am wrong about everything, but I really don't think so. Good day.
AMEN!
What really amazes me is how many people like to pick and choose from the Bible which parts they can ignore or follow. Going by the Bible, isn't sex supposed to be solely for reproductive purposes only?
-- Posted by Deception82z on Wed, Apr 2, 2008, at 7:37 AM
I think the understanding that sex (as described in the Bible)is only for reproductive purposes and not for enjoyment is way off base. Just read the Song of Soloman. Quite sexy! Probably would make a good adult film.
Hmm, but the Bible does say sex outside the missionary position is not acceptable... I am quite sure if that's the case, there won't be enough room in hell for everyone, lol.
Don't think it is mentioned in the Bible. Has been taught by some churches but I would need chapter and verse to convince me.
Deception82z,
I am the one that you reference in your post as "He claims to be a Christian, yet would rather support bestility than two men sign a committment paper together. It makes no sense to me."
I hope I can make a little sense of it. To start with I want to clarify I do not support bestiality in the least. I view it as the Bible does as vile and detestable.
To love your neighbor as yourself has never meant to be perceived as accept your neighbor as yourself. To love someone does not mean to agree with them or accept their any desiring behaviors. One of the hardest things I had to learn were you do not have to like what you love. Traditional America views love as merely an advanced form of like than comes after like in the process and is all accepting of everything you love. Love is actually the opposite of that.
You also made a comment that "Christian love was always taught as acceptance and forgiveness to me, but I guess I was lied to." It may be that you were not lied to but just not completely taught the entire truth. Yes forgiveness is the western cornerstone of Christianity but it was laid right after the southern cornerstone of repentance. Never did Christ teach to "Go and sin some more". He plainly said "Go and sin no more". If you can ever comprehend the wrath of a pure and perfect Father in the presence of sin you will then understand the depth of love of his Son. If you ever realize the depth of love of the Son and what has been done you will out of your own love for him not want to willingly be in the presence of sin that the pure and perfect Father is wrathful of.
I also want to say that the ones that do pick and choose from the Bible will be the ones that will only tell you only what you want to hear. They will usually be the ones that want to deny the wrath of a loving God and only tell you of his love side. They will give you every reason that you should stay in the deception. They will not be the ones that truly love you and tell you to....
" 18Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body....
and care about you enough to mention....
"9Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
10Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.
No, Deception82z, they would rather have you on the same sinking ship as them and use you to justify their own passions of willful continuation in sin.
Nobody that loves you would ever want to see you not inherit the kingdom of God.
AMEN! Your words make alot of sense. Keep with it Deception82z!
(In response to: Posted by Deception82z on Wed, Apr 2, 2008, at 7:37 AM )
quantumcat,
In reference to your comment:
"We need to permit all our people to have basic rights in regard to citizenship, health care,legal protections,etc. and,in our personal lives,we need to determine what sort of hearts and minds people are using in their relationships before we get too obsessed with what their genitals might be up to."
The only thing I want to ask you to think about is to consider that it could possibly be good if everyone was a little "obsessed with what their genitals might be up to" if the inheritance of the kingdom of God was a concern you wished to have these genital bearers possess.
Also you mentioned that we need to permit them to have basic rights of citizenship, health care and legal protection. This is departing from the ethical and moral issues but I still would like to ask you something. Do you think that we others should have to have taxes removed from our wages to help pay for this health care they may need when a sexually transmitted disease latches on to them that probably originated from some risky behavior in the use of those genitals? Especially after God and most of the rest of the world warned them of this behavior pattern for the last 2000 years?
I for one am tired of supporting all these causes financially that I do not believe in partaking of including smoking, drinking, drug using and non working that others willfully participate in regularly and diseases they invite onto themselves.
I might be able to get a day off more often if less of a burden was put on me to supplement the ones lacking in good sense and morals and they were made to pay for their choices.
They should be held totally accountable for the decisions they had as choices in making.
But as usual they want someone else to pay for their choices and use the old "God made me this way" or "The Devil made me do it" justification.
It is not easy to take a stand such as this. Actually it could be said and I know that it is so much easier for me to just turn the eye. After all I it is indeed not my genitals that may rot off from this behavior of theirs. I really question though how anyone that is a Christian can stand to see even a total stranger you have not met be deceived and support their behavior by not condemning it to them. To not condemn it to them is to support them in it.
parkerbrothers, you have no right to go around telling everyone what they can and cannot believe in. i looked at your sodom and gommora comment (date posted at the bottom of this page) and you called nascarfanatic's bible childish because of his/her beliefs.
i think some of your beliefs and views are childish. this blog had reached a peaceful point when you "accidentally" posted something controversial on another blog - a blog that would be incited by what you said.
if you want to be a christian, then be a christian. and if you want to live in a free country like america, respect other peoples' views. you don't have to like them, but you have to respect them. and calling people and ideas childish is not respecting the freedom our forefathers fought and died for.
perhaps a man in love with an animal is unnatural, but it is his freedom to express his love that way, just as it the right of a gay man or woman to love someone of the same sex, or a man to love a woman.
(in reference to a post by parkerbrothers on Wed, Apr 2, 2008, at 12:34 AM)
delilah,
Whoa, whoa, whoa! You got to going just a little too fast there delilah. Let's back up and look at what was actually said in order.
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When you throw animals into the equation, it's just plain pathetic and shoes how far you must go to continue your childlike reasonings... It was fun while it lasted, ttyl
-- Posted by nascarfanatic on Tue, Apr 1, 2008, at 11:43 PM
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If the introduction of man mating with animal seems childish to you then you therefore consider your Bible childish.
It was a prevelant and known detestable and vile passion existing from the earliest of times. I am suprised you act as if it is new strange flesh I have concocted from an imagination. I hope you are joking and know better.
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Wed, Apr 2, 2008, at 12:34 AM
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#1 - I am not going around telling someone what they can believe. I am telling you what I believe in. Only when you see the truth in what I believe in can you be lead to think I was telling you what to believe in. It is not me telling you what to believe it, it is your conscience. Easy to let happen. Hard to follow though.
#2 - Actually I can not literally call nascarfanatics' Bible childish because I have no idea what his Bible is. I know it is not like mine since he has discredited nearly all the books of the only Bible I know, as being written by a fraud. I am assuming he is an intelligent man that will not put faith in anything he believes is written by a fraud.
I do however see that the post could have been made easier for you to comprehend if I had more correctly said my or our Bible. The use of the word "your" Bible was meant to be understood as "the Bible" or "every Christians' Bible".
I thought the sentences following it clarified it but I accept responsibility for not being more specific for you.
Sorry for the confusion and hope I do not cause anything like it for you again. If I do I will try to clarify things again. Thanks
Parkerbrothers,
I must admit, when I first saw your comments a week or so ago, I was scared of you...Scared that the tactics you used to get your point across would cause more damage than good. But for the past few days, you have impressed me.
Your enthusiasm and resolve to tell the word of God has shone brightly. Keep up the good work.
pleasebenice,
You are not the first person to let me know I need polishing. One of the biggest obstacles I have to actually work at is knocking the edge off of what I am thinking before it comes out of my mouth. The tongue is the hardest thing I have ever attempted to tame. Even though I realize I will go to my grave and never completely break it I am going to continue to allow the Holy Spirit to do his work on an impossible object. I am difinitely a piece of clay being molded into a better pot.
Also you mentioned that we need to permit them to have basic rights of citizenship, health care and legal protection. This is departing from the ethical and moral issues but I still would like to ask you something. Do you think that we others should have to have taxes removed from our wages to help pay for this health care they may need when a sexually transmitted disease latches on to them that probably originated from some risky behavior in the use of those genitals? Especially after God and most of the rest of the world warned them of this behavior pattern for the last 2000 years?
I for one am tired of supporting all these causes financially that I do not believe in partaking of including smoking, drinking, drug using and non working that others willfully participate in regularly and diseases they invite onto themselves.
-- Posted by parkerbrothers on Wed, Apr 2, 2008, at 12:08 PM
I just don't understand how you can sit there and think that the only people who have sexually transmitted diseases and do things that you don't agree with or support are homosexuals. And don't give me statistics, by statistics I am 50lbs overweight, and should be 120, but if I go below 140 it looks like i'm starving myself. (I hate stats, they're hardly ever accurate.) It only takes one promiscuous act from ANYONE whether gay or straight to inherit a sexually transmitted disease. Sexually transmitted diseases do not care what your orientation is to "latch on". Most people I know that are not straight have their own insurance, so how are you supporting them financially? Sometimes you don't have to smoke, drink, nor do anything hap hazardous to your health to have something majorly wrong with your health. Take for example my father, he didn't smoke or drink or anything. He had cancer and therefore didn't work. You, along with everyone else who are paying taxes, paid for his medical bills. And like you, he was a "Christian" and was as homophobic also. He was a real piece of work also. But you can justify taking care of him, but not the people you do not like. It's amazing.
Don't get me wrong, I think if you're able to work you should. If you're able to work then you should be able to have health care and insurance and support your own families. I don't think that you should rely on the support of others to provide for your every mean. However, I do know that sometimes you just need a little extra help whether it be with medical expenses or food or just help with everyday financial responsibilities. It happens. So, how can you be so blatantly disregardful to say that the only ones who have these problems reside in the gay community?
I don't live off the government or tax payers. I have a fairly stable life without having anyone help me. That's funny, that I've been blessed, and neither me nor my husband believe in organized religion and I am bi-sexual. How ironic that someone like me can have a good life without all the problems that you speak of. Can you explain this? The devil didn't make me do it, any of it.
Deception82z
Thanks for caring enough to respond to something as this.
I think you misunderstand me. I do not think homosexuals are the only people who have sexually transmitted diseases. I do think willful homosexuals are at much greater risk for some of the STD's especially the AID's virus.
I have no trouble supporting the health care of people who you describe as your father. My only problem is with people who do things that the Bible, Surgeon General, Medical Professions, The Conscience and most everyone knows and warns is a serious health risk willfully and boastingly as all right until they need help and even then remain in a stubborn stage of denial and refuse to acknowledge they had a choice but choose insead to say either "God just made this way" or " the devil made me do it". That is what I do not like to sweat for.
I also did not say that the only one needing help reside in the gay community. Where did you read that? I do say that I do will not go and sweat in the field willingly to support a gay who willfully choose his lifestyle refusing to heed warnings and need financial assistance to treat his disease while he lays in the hospital bed still refusing to accept responsibilities for his actions (choices) and lay the blame over on God and defend himself by saying "God made me this way".
I think your conscience is talking to you and your are mistaking it for me saying something to you. Go back and read what I had said earlier and I think you will see who was doing the talking.
Parkerbrothers,
They do not claim that the "devil made them do it" Is it really that hard to pull your head out of your butt for 5 seconds and think that they were born that way. You just didn't wake up wanting to be straight, it was just the way you are, but I am seriously doubting that you are 100% straight considering how threatened you seem by homosexuals. And why is it just 2 men that concern you, are lesbians exempt from that because they turn you on in some sick way?
AIDS is the number one killer OF STRAIGHT AFRICAN WOMEN..NOT GAY MEN. You just talk and talk and talk and never have anything useful to say.
I guarantee you if a Gay couple came to you wanting to buy one of your homes you would happily take the money. Considering you are on the verge of bankruptcy and have to sell X number of houses by the end of the year to keep your head above water. hmmmmm....seems that if you are the righteous man you claim to be, then wouldn't God be blessing you instead of watching you sink and falter?
Disturbia,
Not everyone of the ones I was referring to literally all say "the devil made me do it" directly but most do refuse to take responsibility for their actions (choices) which in essence is the same as saying "God made me this way" or "the devil made me do it". I do admit that the "God made me this way" justification is the most popular today.
Are you thinking you can ever convince someone (other than a homosexual) that it is not a "choice" they can make to participate in the vile and detestable acts or not?
Let me be the first to admit I do not know anything about being a human compelled to engage in homosexual activities. Maybe I am assuming things I do not know. I am willing to learn. Can a human that for whatever reason (genitically or enviromentally)is drawn to engage in homosexual activities make a choice to not participate for some reason ( health, love of his God, time of day). Are you saying they are robotical in form and have not been given a free will and mind to decide with? If it is not a Choice they can make then who has made their choice for them ( God, Satan or a Stargate mechanic)? You have me confused. I thought we were all born with a free will and mind. Who made them if they are different? Everyone God created has a free will.
You are correct that if a gay couple wanted to buy a house I would sell them one. But by the same token if a gay couple wanted to buy 100 homes in one day my opinion of Gods' view of their lifestyle would not change. If they were to ask my opinion of homosexuality I would tell them the same thing day in and day out. I would hope they would still be interested in buying the house even though I am not buying into their lifesyle.
If you were to turn the question around, I would not be suprised if the same gay couple would not want to buy a house from me if I gave them my simple opinion of homosexuality. Odds are they would be the prejudice ones.
In reference to your comment:
"Considering you are on the verge of bankruptcy and have to sell X number of houses by the end of the year to keep your head above water. hmmmmm....seems that if you are the righteous man you claim to be, then wouldn't God be blessing you instead of watching you sink and falter?"
God has better things to be concerned with than my financial conditions. I believe he is more concerned with all of our spiritual conditions.
However, you seem to know about our financial conditions about as much as you do the free will and choice of man. You probably get your information from the same sources that produce your erroneous thoughts.
Your comments though will not induce me into your draw. There are only two people whos' comments on our finances would cause me to blink more than an eye. That is our Banker and Accountant. They have a completly different opinion than what you proclaim but let that be as it is. You are entitled to your opinion of our financial condition just as I am my opinion of a homosexuals spiritual condition. I do think someones spiritual condition is more valuable and should be of concern more than anyones financial condition and deserves more consideration?
parkerbrothers:
You did not succumb to the inducements!! Hallelujah!!
I wanted to succumb to it but I made one of those things called CHOICES. I was going to write a song about choices but George Jones beat me to it.
"Livin and dying by tha choices I made"
It's funny when you say "Are you saying they are robotical in form and have not been given a free will and mind to decide with? If it is not a Choice they can make then who has made their choice for them ( God, Satan or a Stargate mechanic)? You have me confused. I thought we were all born with a free will and mind. Who made them if they are different? Everyone God created has a free will.".. yet YOU never made a CHOICE to be straight, YOU just are, and always have been (i hope)...
So does that mean you are "robotical in form and have not been given a free will and mind to decide with"??? After all, since you never made a choice, and you think homosexuals DID, then it seems you are to robot who can not think for yourself... You act as if "freewill and making a decision" is a good thing, so long as it measures up to your choices and free will. Guess what, you're not God, and I thank God for that everyday.
Oh, and since you obviously make predetermined stereotypes concerning the HIV/AIDS disease, I'll prove you wrong...
More than 25 million people have died of AIDS since 1981.
Africa has 12 million AIDS orphans.
At the end of 2007, women accounted for 50% of all adults living with HIV worldwide, and for 61% in sub-Saharan Africa.
Young people (under 25 years old) account for half of all new HIV infections worldwide.
In developing and transitional countries, 7.1 million people are in immediate need of life-saving AIDS drugs; of these, only 2.015 million (28%) are receiving the drugs.
-WORLDWIDE-
People living with HIV/AIDS in 2007 33.2 million
Adults living with HIV/AIDS in 2007 30.8 million
Women living with HIV/AIDS in 2007 15.4 million
Children living with HIV/AIDS in 2007 2.5 million
People newly infected with HIV in 2007 2.5 million
Adults newly infected with HIV in 2007 2.1 million
Children newly infected with HIV in 2007 0.42 million
AIDS deaths in 2007 2.1 million
Adult AIDS deaths in 2007 1.7 million
Child AIDS deaths in 2007 0.33 million
*People infected in North America (U.S., Candada, and Mexico) 1.3 million or 0.8% of the ENTIRE population of THREE countries.
Parkerbrothers,
In reference to your "the devil made me do it", we're going to get a little more personal here. You said you wouldn't mind supporting my father because of health reasons. I wonder if your opinion would change if I told you that he beat me everyday I saw him for three years. Everytime after he slammed my head against a wall or tried to break a bone in my body he said he was sorry, and him and my MOTHER would both justify the horrible act by saying it was the cancer or the medicines that he was taking. And now, after six years of escaping the abuse (God knows my parents didn't raise me, just collected the money for us minors, food stamps and all when my sister was bearing all the financial responsibilites by herself) I still have a lasting problem from all his crap. Is it fair for someone as worthless as him and my mom (who was able to work) to be supported and someone else not to just because they like the same sex? It's abolical.
As far as the choice goes to be homosexual, I really don't think that it's a choice. If it was then I'd pick the easier one to choose. Do you think that I enjoy being ridiculed if I tell someone? Do you honestly believe that I would ignore my husband (the man that I honestly love dearly) for months at a time because I don't find him sexually attractive on purpose? If I had a choice, I would forget all the feelings that I have and live an emotionless existance - that way no one else would get hurt in the process. It's not as simple as a choice. If it was, it'd be easy because of all the hardships homophobics like you like to defer to us.
I don't mind being "different", I just wish people would keep their own rude comments to yourself. You are completely ignorant on the topic of homosexuality and should probably do a little more research before you stick your foot in your mouth (and copying and pasting statistics doesn't do much for me). Most of the homosexuals that I know are some of the most caring and nurturing people I have ever met. Wish I could say the same for the type of Christian that you are.
And you are right about someone or something talking to me, it's actually my conscious telling me that I should not take anything that you say to heart or too heavily. If you remember correctly, even Satan (Lucifer) was God's favorite angel, just got a little too cocky doing his own work and tried to take over God's himself.
jesuslovesevery1,
I think I have noticed something that we both may not realize we are doing. We may actually both be thinking the same way but thinking about 2 different aspects of the same.
We may can find a way to see to agree at least on part of it.
When I say they have a "Choice" I want you to know that I am not talking about their genetic makeup which probably does have a prescribed combination that make them prone to homosexual tendencies. I firmly believe that a person can have genes that diffently can be linked to homosexuality and another person such as myself may not have any of those genes. If a person has those genes there is nothing they can do as far as I know to change those genes. The inheritance of those genes could never be a choice. I have never thought they could be or were. I believe sometimes you are thinking I claimed they have a choice about that.
The other side of it is:
I have said and still believe they have a choice as to whether they participate in the actual acts of homosexuality that they are drawn to by this possible inheritance of genes that make them prone to the draw. I have been thinking that you were saying they do not have that choice that can be made. My believing that you were referring to this as something they had no choice about is what has led me to think we were actually both right but wrong at the same time. I believe we were talking about two different aspects of the same thing.
I will also say I have no idea how strong of a pull those genes if inherited can have on someone and how hard of a struggle it might be to suppress the desires they could create. There is no doubt that it is a hard thing for anyone to comprehend just how hard it might be on them.
I do think all things are possible with God.
What do you think?
Deception82z
In view of what you said about your father I would have to say that I would not like knowing I supported someone who did the things he did to you or any child. I wish I could turn back the hands of time and rescue you from it.
I know it must be hard to love any man after being betrayed by the very man who should have protected and loved you. Time can heal all wounds but it has to take a lot of time to get over being treated as you were. No one deserves to be treated as such.
As far as choices go, your father had a choice to make back then. He made one and it was a horrible one. Whatever the reason he may have gave, it does not excuse the choice he made to harm you and violate your trust. You on the other hand had no choice on who your father was.
One of the hardest things for me to understand is why God allows some things to happen as they do. I do know we become stronger by weathering some of the storms of life but I still question why at times.
Not all men are like your father though. It appears you have a great husband. He too has been affected by what someone other than himself has done to you. He has to pay himself for something he had nothing to do with. No wonder you love him dearly. Maybe God has blessed you with a much better than average man now to make up for the less than average man earlier in your life.
I know you do not want to hear it but I have to say that I still believe we have a choice to make about everything irregaurdless of our feelings. I know some choices are harder on one person than they are the other.
It is not you I condemn. It is the sin itself of engaging in homosexual activity. I actually feel for you. Even though I can not imagine the extent of your pain and drawings to some vise I can still say that I feel for what you have to be going through.
If ever you have to think about the love your father did not show again, try to replace it with the love your husband has for you and the love Christ has for all of us with similar problems we have to deal with. If you recognize what a love they have for you it might help in being able to return the love to them and live a life that is pleasing in the eyes of both of them.
Parkerbrothers,
I appreciate the kindness. However, I think you misunderstood me a little. The few months of abstinence had nothing to do with my past or my father, just the fact that I wasn't attracted to men. I didn't choose to ignore him completely, it was a mind set that I could not escape. I have made it a point to not hold anything that has happened to me against my husband. I know that he had nothing to do with it. I believe that my past is what made me the strong person that I am now. I do not let my anger control me, and I won't. What happened in the past stays in the past (or just inside my mind). I am still learning to deal with everything that has happened, but I have never held it against anyone that wasn't directly responsible.
However, I do find it amusing that you change your opinion after you hear someone's story, yet still remain detached from everyone's feelings that you do not know anything about. I'm bi and you feel compassion for me as a human, which is appreciated, yet you don't feel anything for the others. It's sad that you along with other people can judge someone before you actually know them.
Deception82z
My opinion has not changed. You gave me two different people to consider. Although they were both the same person you did not present them as the same in each of the two different post. You presented your father in two different characters in the two.
I feel compassion for all the homosexuals. Enough compassion for their spiritual well being to tell them what they do not want to hear. Just because I do not lie to myself and them and support their activities as okay does not mean I do not love them.
Just as with your father, if someone loved him they would have told him what he was doing was wrong. Loving someone and having compassion is not about agreeing with their actions. Quite the opposite actually. If you love someone and have any compassion whatsoever in you, you will not sit by and let them harm themselves and others around them. Your father was harming more than just you when he treated you as you described. Even today that harm comes forward and has to dealt with even by people who were not even in that room so many days ago.
To make sure I leave no doubt in your mind about my opinion I will state it again. I have no hate toward any homosexual. Even the ones I will never meet or talk to in a lifetime. I have compassion and love for each and everyone of them as a person.
Their activities and sin is another story. I hate that sin as much as any including the many I have. I have a God who hates all sin and refuses to be in its presence.
I also have the opinion that a person who has homosexual desires is not a HOMOSEXUAL. Athough I at times refer to a person with these desires as a homosexual I do not mean to infer that is their primary being. They are a PERSON with a heart, mind and soul that has many desires both good and bad in them that they can make a choice about. I believe these desires are of different magnitudes within each individual and that they are the result of either a genetic inheritance or enviroment or more than likely a unique mix of both. Whatever the cause of these desires they all can be controled by making choices that will not jepordize our well being long term in lieu of satisifying our short term heat of the passion moments.
Whether these desires be to find another line to snort, person to have an adulterous affair with, a child to rape, house to break into or a mate of the same sex to have sex with they all involve the free will of people who can make a choice about their own vice.
To deny I have a choice to make is to deny I have a mind to think with.