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Transition is hard to grasp for Somalians

Thursday, December 27, 2007

Imagine you and your family suddenly being deposited into a totally alien society, with a completely different language spoken and customs so foreign that some might be considered offensive.

Yet the only way one can adapt is to learn the native tongue and ways of the people who already live there.

That's what hundreds of Somali Muslim refugees have faced over the past few years in Shelbyville, and it hasn't been an easy transition.

Holly Johnson, director of Catholic Charities of Nashville, said that the main obstacles facing newcomers are language and cultural barriers.

"Of course, it's much easier when they already know someone in the community -- especially if that person speaks English and has been in the U.S. a while to help them navigate our culture," Johnson said.

Johnson explained that refugees "are very adaptable by definition," so while these areas are challenging, "they are not insurmountable by any stretch.

"It's probably more difficult in a smaller, tighter-knit community like Shelbyville than it is in a 'metro' area like Nashville, but again, they have family and friends that make them feel welcome there," she said.

Education is the key to ensuring that the Somali population successfully integrates into our community. One place that has been a great help in that respect is the Adult Learning Center on Depot Street.

But according to director Elaine Weaver, vast cultural differences still have to be overcome before that can happen.

Out of 150 non-native speakers enrolled in adult education in Bedford County, close to 50 to 60 are Somali. Last year, they made up 25 percent of those attending classes.

However, Weaver indicated that the Somalis have not been loyal to the program, meaning they were refusing to attend the classes on a regularly scheduled basis. Somalis would stay away from the classes for long periods of time and suddenly return.

"They don't understand our culture, they don't understand our methods," Weaver said. One Somali woman registered for classes in August, attended a few in September, but did not return to the classroom until this month.

"They don't understand yet that in order to have a teacher and provide free classes, that they have to be loyal to this program," due to the fact that the Adult Learning Center has to pay the teacher to be there, Weaver said.

The Department of Labor administers grants for the Adult Learning Center, which go through the Bedford County Board of Education. The problem is that Weaver is not allowed to count students who do not have 12 hours of attendance in the program, including a pre- and post-test.

Last year, Weaver said that almost 100 out of 265 students could not be counted because they did not meet the attendance requirements, and 75 percent of those failing to attend classes were Somalis.

But Weaver said that she can see a change in those few Somalis who stick with the program, who she says are very interested in bettering themselves by learning the language and culture.

"They are wonderful students, but it's a very small population ... about 10 to 15 ... but I think that's going to grow," Weaver said.

But differences remain between the English speaking instructors and the Somalis. The Center's first encounters with the newcomers did not go so well, with the Somalis being described as "demanding, aggressive and argumentative" and very different than anyone they had ever dealt with.

"They are very demanding and I don't know if that is because their culture in general," Weaver explained, but she has also been told that Somalis are being taken to Minneapolis after they arrive in America and given classes on "what they should demand, and what are their rights."

In the first year, some Somalis would walk into the building and tell instructors what they required without waiting in line or for an appointment, sometimes interrupting ongoing classes, Weaver said.

Another issue occurred during Ramadan, where two Somalis were asking to leave classes for religious reasons. Weaver admitted she was not aware of the Islamic requirement during this time and would not allow them to go. They returned with representatives of the Tennessee Immigration and Refugee Center in Nashville who explained how to deal with prayer time.

"I did not understand that if they don't break their 12 hour fast [during Ramadan] they would have to continue for another 12 hours," Weaver said. "Once we understand them, it makes it much easier."

One Somali in particular, who was described as "very impolite" a year ago, has seen much improvement since that time. Others had a habit of slamming their hands on tables while making demands, and they have been told that behavior is not acceptable in America.

"Education is a wonderful thing," Weaver said. "In a year's time, we've stopped some of that, but we had to be very firm with them."

Weaver compared the situation to when Hispanics first began appearing in the community and the learning curve they faced integrating into the community.

"It will take a while, just like it did with the Hispanics when they first came here," Weaver said.


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"They are very demanding and I don't know if that is because their culture in general," Weaver explained, but she has also been told that Somalis are being taken to Minneapolis after they arrive in America and given classes on "what they should demand, and what are their rights."

THEY SHOULDN'T DEMAND ANYTHING! They came to this country of their own free will - they have no business making DEMANDS!

-- Posted by puppydinks on Thu, Dec 27, 2007, at 7:45 AM

Somalians being very demanding comes from where they fought for there lives for so long and living in the refugee camps having to figh for everything they got or could get. I meet a old man that watched his wife and family killed would you not be upset and angry even after all these years?

We as Americans need to practice a little more patience and understanding. I am by no means saying just let yourself be run over. If anyone does not like the situation than lets help by teaching and being kind.

-- Posted by Shelbyville my home on Thu, Dec 27, 2007, at 11:20 AM

Let's just hope they are treated better than the hispanics were when they arrived to work in the "bidnesses" of Shelbyville. I seriously thought I would throw up if I had to hear one more unemployed redneck talk about how they had "taken all the jobs". It is not like Bubba was busting down anyone's door to attempt to complete an application!

And, please...let us all hope that a Somalia child is not the first child born in the new year. Many of us still remember the outcry that happened several years ago when the first child of the new year born at the Medical Center was the product of unmarried hispanic parents. At that time, the Gazette had the phone line where you could leave comments and those would be published. The hatred and small mindedness of the citizens of Bedford Co. floored me! Some solid citizen actually suggested that all the loot that is given to the parents of the first child born in the new year should have been saved for the first child born to a married, white couple.

If any one of us would put ourselves in someone else's shoes, I think we would all admit that if we were living anywhere else, we would do all we could to end up in America.

-- Posted by Par for the Course on Thu, Dec 27, 2007, at 2:45 PM

They aren't going to "Grasp It".

-- Posted by framestraight on Thu, Dec 27, 2007, at 7:27 PM

Tyson Foods should consider relocating to Mexico or Somali. That way their employees would not have to endure our terrible culture. I know that if another country offered me refuge and a job for my family, and me I would be very grateful and humble when I arrived there. The United States is the most giving country in the world; we see this over and over again, with money and troops going to help in disaster situations around the world. So to the people that say we just need to try harder I'm not sure what you would have us do other than to give up our culture and adopt theirs, which will happen one day unless we use some common sense. We are no better than anyone else, but we are no worse either.

-- Posted by Ranger185 on Thu, Dec 27, 2007, at 7:29 PM

I don't care how hard the "transition" is for them - ALL of us at one time or another have to make "transitions" but do we whine about it?

That's just the way it is - so my advice to them is to DEAL WITH IT!!

-- Posted by puppydinks on Fri, Dec 28, 2007, at 10:30 AM

"The hatred and small mindedness of the citizens of Bedford Co. floored me! Some solid citizen actually suggested that all the loot that is given to the parents of the first child born in the new year should have been saved for the first child born to a married, white couple." (Par for the Course)

Well, well, it continues to amaze me how "offended" people are when confronted with FACTS and then resort to name-calling!

Par for the Course - you have exposed yourself as one of the very people you are criticizing - and then you have the nerve to bring race into the equation.

SHAME ON YOU!!

-- Posted by puppydinks on Fri, Dec 28, 2007, at 11:51 AM

Hey puppydinks...I seriously could not care less what you think of me or my opinion. I am happy that you are all knowing...my opinion is based strictly on three very long years of observation...not some small minded view of the world.

-- Posted by Par for the Course on Fri, Dec 28, 2007, at 1:47 PM

Par for the Course said, "If any one of us would put ourselves in someone else's shoes, I think we would all admit that if we were living anywhere else, we would do all we could to end up in America."

Par for the Course,

You owe me everything I need and want, and I want it now!

Since I have to wait 6 months for our passports, and the American Dollar isn't worth shit in other countries, and we are pretty much lost our asses due to the mortgage crisis, high interest rates, low income for college grads/or certified individuals and now higher taxes; We don't really have a chance of leaving America for another country.

I would go in a heartbeat to France if I had the money to do so, They don't have a refugee program for American war victims though. Since we are at war on everything, War on drugs, war on poverty, war on middle class, war on terrorists, war on "everything".

I have been displaced by my local government, state, and Federal Government, and my employer (fired from Tyson's for going to my break). Where is my free refugee money, healthcare, plane tickets, my Bible, education, and respect? Par for the Course YOU OWE ME EVERYTHING I DESIRE RIGHT NOW!

-- Posted by Evil Monkey on Fri, Dec 28, 2007, at 5:37 PM

Par for the Course - Have you considered moving to San Francisco, Vermont, or some other Liberal "refuge"?

-- Posted by puppydinks on Sat, Dec 29, 2007, at 11:56 AM

The "peaceful" religion of Islam…….Honor Killing? Beheadings? Body-bombs? How about female genital mutilation (FGM)?

Brigitte Gabriel, author of "Because They Hate: A Survivor of Islamic Terror Warns America" and founder of the web site ACT For America!, where Ms. Gabriel states, "I founded ACT! for America because Islamic militants have declared war on America....We are in for the fight of our lives...." Become involved in your future and the future of your family. Visit ACT for America's website, chapter info and become involved as a member of an existing chapter or become a chapter leader and start one in your area.

-- Posted by Smokey1977 on Fri, Feb 1, 2008, at 4:40 PM


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